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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago

You ever have someone that you knew for a short amount of time (a month, a week, a few days, even just a conversation or single comment) but who nevertheless changed you in some big way, and you still think about them years later and wish you could talk to them again and just know what they're doing now and tell them how they changed your life and everything? But like, you were just some person they met once years ago and they don't think about you, probably don't even remember you. I have many of these people.

[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 22 points 2 weeks ago

I was this person for someone too. Seeing me happy and confident helped her have the courage to come out. Only we met again years later and she told me that (I'd had no idea). It made me so happy and feel so good about myself to know I've actually made some kind of positive impact on that world. I thought it very romantic too; we're girlfriends now 🥰🥰🥰

[-] SickSemper@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

we're girlfriends now

Good ending!

[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 1 points 2 weeks ago

A very good one!! T4t is so amazing

[-] SickSemper@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

I Agree! Met my partner years ago but basically only ended up together by chance, and now we’re in gay t4t love. Cant believe this is my life catgirl-happy

[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

Cant believe this is my life

I say this literally all the time! Life is so cool, I love being trans trans-heart

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah :(

Definitely a few of mine were people here. For all I know, some could still be here even. But both of us on a different account. Weird to think about. I love to stew my brain in weird nostalgic longing for people like that sometimes though

[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

Like posters even who I never talked to, just people who's posts were very important to me figure out that I'm trans

[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

Been thinking a lot today about the first person to ever make me feel desirable. I was sure I'd be alone forever, that no one could possibly want me, until they did. We went on two dates a week apart, it didn't worj between us. But my self hatred began to crumble in the face of the indisputable fact that someone thought I was attractive. 6 months later I was on hrt and in love with my first girlfriend. I wish I could tell them that; they cried and felt so bad about ending it, they thought they had hurt me and I never saw them again

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