Okay, but those are both normal identities here. Have you had bad experiences based on those identities here?

Its an odd linguistic choice to identify as a "male homosexual" specifically and especially as a defiant statement against a seemingly specific type of bigotry.

Further its odd to start from the assumption that people will be racist towards you as well. Especially here where we can't know that information unless given to us.

You're clearly traumatized and reacting in response to that, but it starts the conversation off on a terrible foot when you assume the community you're posting to for the first time is going to be hostile to you for things we cannot know unless you share it. I think the hostility you've encountered here, including my swearing, was triggered by this because you offended us.