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Live in the past, is mine. I will listen to things over and over because some songs or even podcast episodes, rewind me back to times where I felt comfortable in. I do sometimes poke my head out to see where things are currently in the present, but nothing around really makes me gravitate to anything current-day. But, then I just go back to my hole in living in the past.

People used to tell old people to get over it about them remembering things as they were all of the time. I'm understanding why they do that. Sometimes the present really truly sucks.

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[-] mushroommunk@lemmy.today 9 points 3 days ago

Complain about my back. I thought if I kept healthy, ate well, and did some basic workouts I'd be fine. Boy did mother nature teach me

[-] kescusay@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Tall guy, here. There are specific exercises you can do to strengthen and stabilize your back, and that might help. I've actually got fewer back troubles than I did when I was young and stupid, because I'm taking care of it.

[-] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 3 days ago

Would love to be pointed in the right direction. I've had lower back issues since my early 20s.

[-] CrackaAssCracka@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

McKenzie method for low back pain is a starting point. It’s stretching, maybe strengthening I can’t remember. Hip flexors, hamstrings, calves are usually tight and can cause back pain. The front and back of the legs have to be balanced or they’ll pull your pelvis out of neutral. Modern day sitting doesn’t do us any good, tightening all the posterior compartment muscles in the legs.

Core strengthening is important for good posture. Being aware of your overall posture is also really important too. Yoga is fantastic for stretching, posture, and strengthening.

Caveat: sometimes it’s structural and this stuff may only help somewhat but chronic pain is treated with multiple modalities. If this stuff doesn’t improve it significantly along with NSAIDs, follow up with your primary care doc.

How I know: I’m a physician who screwed up his back and had to figure all this out and now I teach my patients how to treat their back pain. I also use physical therapy liberally because it’s fucking awesome.

[-] kescusay@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I was going to say all this, only worse and less detailed. Thanks to you, I don't have to!

[-] matsdis@piefed.social 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Some months ago walking got suddenly painful in the lower back. Walking down a stair was only possible at half the normal speed. I am fourty-something and this made me feel very old. I did more of my usual back-strengthening exercises, but it got worse. I thought surely something is broken. When I went to the doctor she told me that I just neglected stretching, mostly the hip flexor. It went away after doing that. Apparently very common when you sit a lot, and when you do lots of running. (And I did try more running to make it go away, without stretching afterwards, lol.)

[-] rouxdoo@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Also tall guy here. Realize that most back pain is actually inflammation. Yes, I have some blown discs in my lower back and I used to have to get shots in them to reduce the swelling. Manage your inflammation and you will have fewer troubles. Of course, you have to stop lifting those heavy things in a stupid way.

[-] KnightontheSun@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

It may seem odd, but doing crunches helps. A lot. Getting those abs in shape helps to pull the back together too!

[-] rhymeswithduck@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 days ago

Pretty sure they have debunked both of those. Crunches put a lot of strain on your lower back, and it's also not great to use ab muscles to suck it in all the time. You're compressing your gut instead of developing the correct back muscles that should be holding you up.

[-] mushroommunk@lemmy.today 1 points 3 days ago

I'm pretty sure my problem right now is my mattress. It's getting pretty old and my back hurts more in the morning than evening oddly. Going shopping for a new one this weekend or next thankfully

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