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Trans Megathread from February 16th, 2025 to February 22nd, 2026 (thelemmy.club)
submitted 6 months ago by [M] to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net
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[–] 19 points 6 months ago* (4 children)

Being trans then becoming a communist (the more common route) makes a lot of sense. Transition opens your eyes to oppression but also intersectionality and solidarity.

But being a communist and then becoming trans (what I imagine quite a few here are) is hilarious. It's like I feel something is fundamentally wrong. Oh turns out society is built on the violence required to enforce capital accumulation and imperialism, was that it? No that's bad but I feel there's something else...

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  • [–] 13 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Coming from the second category it is pretty absurd to realize despite having a clearheaded understanding of the external world that somehow I hadn’t applied that analysis to the internal for a long time. At the same time being a leftist and already having an understanding of the fucked nature of so called gender and social roles and oppression helped bring that understanding of myself when I was really ready for it. Still a little ridiculous tho

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  • [–] 9 points 6 months ago

    I think that understanding of gender roles contributed to me thinking I was just a very 'ambivalent' guy for a while before realizing things were still woefully incomplete for myself lol. Not that it made the egg crack any sooner or later but the inbetween was especially funny in hindsight.

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  • [–] 13 points 6 months ago

    Honestly, intersectionality is what got me here, as I just kept leapfrogging. My path was

    • Vegetarian (killing animals is wrong)
    • Vegan (harming others is wrong)
    • Feminist (gender norms harm others)
    • Communist (we shouldn't just not harm others, we should liberate all of us)
    • Trans (I deserve liberation, gender norms have hurt me)

    It is a really odd path, but for me it has always been easier to wish better for others, rather than myself. Doing that made me realize that I deserve consideration too trans-ferret

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    But "here's only the things about the world that suck, and gender-norms might be disproportionally represented in what issues I think about" is far easier to confront than "I've been forced unnecessarily to go through a puberty I never wanted and if I try doing something about it, it might have significant negative social repercussions".

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