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Yes yes, language changes over time. I've heard that mantra for decades and I know it. That doesn't mean there aren't language changes that aren't grating when they become fashionable (and hopefully temporary).

For me, "morals" being used as a crude catch-all application of "morality," "ethics," "integrity" or related concepts bothers me. Sentence example: "Maybe if society had morals there wouldn't be so many minorities in prison." lmayo us-foreign-policy

An even more annoying otherwise-fluent-speaker modification I see is when "conscious" is used to mean "consciousness" and "conscience" interchangeably. Sentence example: "Single mothers on welfare that steal baby formula have no conscious." It sounds like they're saying the shoplifter is not mentally aware of their own actions, not that they're lacking sufficient "morals" to let their baby starve for the sake of Rules-Based Order(tm).

There's others, but those two come up enough recently, with sufficient newness, for me to bring them up here. Some old classic language quirks are so established and entrenched that even though I hate them, bringing them up would likely invite some hatemail and maybe some mystery alt accounts also sending hatemail after that. You know, because they "could care less(sic)" about what I think. janet-wink

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I am irrationally irritated when people describe something as "addicting" rather than "addictive". I'm not even sure it's technically incorrect, and language is a fluid thing so this shouldn't irritate me. But I still have to consciously tell myself to not be annoyed by it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In this house the only thing we call addicting is addictinggames.com ๐Ÿ˜ค

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That counts; the quirk doesn't even necessarily have to be "wrong" to be annoying to an individual.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In my defense I don't think I've ever actually corrected anybody, I just stew inside my own skull

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I've given up on trying to correct people for the most part because language does change over time and new norms are established whether or not I'm comfortable with them. Sure, some of them are clumsy and staggeringly incorrect (like "conscious" being used in place of "conscience") but if it's done enough times, it'll become the expected way to communicate. angery

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It feels like an Americanism to me. I pretty much only see it on the internet

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I think you're right about that