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People spend their whole lives trying to prove to the machine that they aren't a burden, so that they aren't next on the chopping block. If they have a problem with that, well "it's up to you to deal with that."

So everyone has to perform. Constantly. We all need to prove we are an irreplaceable asset or we'll end up on the street. "I am my best self. I am useful. I have marketable skills. I am calm and collected. Because I can't trust anyone to support me but me." That's hustle culture in a nutshell, isn't it? But can people (especially those who aren't sheltered by wealth) really live like that all the time? Especially in the face of a world full of problems that a positive attitude alone can't solve? With the constant pressure to wear the skinsuit of a perfect asset even if the world is burning around them? Isn't it obvious that it would make everyone so tired?

To top it off, when the inevitable happens, and people crumble under the weight of the mask and and all their fear and anxiety explodes out of them, often the world will give them the exact response they feared. Confusion at the sudden collapse followed by "Well I guess they weren't strong enough to handle it. Not my problem." or at best a "Let's get that mask back on."

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[-] BigWeed@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

This is why I like bimboism/himboism. Society wants us to be smart and you can reject that. It's okay to be dumb and present yourself as dumb. Honestly, it's freeing and it's something I need to exercise more.

[-] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 20 points 1 day ago

I think it's okay to not know things, but willful ignorance should be avoided. Knowledge is good.

[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

Virgin "you're so smart so here's some extra task for you to do because they're a breeze for a genius like you" vs chad "thanks for offering to help, but you might not get this, but don't worry I'll get help from the genius smarty-pants instead"

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