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Dilara was on her lunch break in the London store where she works when a tall man walked up to her and said: "I swear red hair means you've just been heartbroken."

The man continued the conversation as they both got in a lift, and he asked Dilara for her phone number.

What Dilara did not realise was that the man was secretly filming her on his smart glasses - which look like normal eyewear but have a tiny camera which can record video.

The footage was then posted to TikTok, where it received 1.3m views. "I just wanted to cry," Dilara, 21, told the BBC.

The man who filmed her, it turned out, had posted dozens of secretly filmed videos to TikTok, giving men tips on how to approach women.

Dilara also found out that her phone number was visible in the video. She then faced a wave of messages and calls.

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[-] minorkeys@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

They post dudes from the gym just trying to work out to shame them for attention and it's all fine because 'safety' but if they get posted or recorded it's suddenly an issue. Women's empowerment has always been hypocritical and self-serving.

The average consumer is stupid as a bag of rocks and care more about doing what they feel like doing than doing what is wise. They've helped build a consumer product surveillance state and will never admit any fault for it, even when ICE now uses it to gestapo them. They shamed anyone that dared suggest maybe don't invite tracking and surveillance technology into every inch of OUR lives, or posting everyone's shit on Facebook all day. Fuck these ppl for helping usher in the techbro fascist dictatorship we're now suffering.

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 weeks ago

And then they hit you with the "If you just don't bother women, then you won't be accused of harassment!" and the "Believe victims! No one actually weaponizes false accusations in retaliation for petty grievances. Women never lie!"

Emmett Till begs to differ...

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