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Dilara was on her lunch break in the London store where she works when a tall man walked up to her and said: "I swear red hair means you've just been heartbroken."

The man continued the conversation as they both got in a lift, and he asked Dilara for her phone number.

What Dilara did not realise was that the man was secretly filming her on his smart glasses - which look like normal eyewear but have a tiny camera which can record video.

The footage was then posted to TikTok, where it received 1.3m views. "I just wanted to cry," Dilara, 21, told the BBC.

The man who filmed her, it turned out, had posted dozens of secretly filmed videos to TikTok, giving men tips on how to approach women.

Dilara also found out that her phone number was visible in the video. She then faced a wave of messages and calls.

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[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

anyone can easily film you in public because anyone just assumes you're just holding your phone up for something else.

Nope. If someone is doing that, I can easily notice it and know it's a possibility and move/turn away. Just because I can judge that as probably not happening doesn't mean a phone being held is equivalent to a human literally just wearing glasses with their head turned my way.

Are you really advocating for the position that I should give up the fight and just accept being filmed at all times in public?

[-] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 2 points 1 month ago

If you're in the US, the supreme court has said repeatedly we have no expectation of privacy in public. Anyone can operate as the press and the first amendment locks in their right specifically to film in publicly accessible places, and also to record government employees in the course of their duties based on current constitutioal law. It's good for filming cops from a short distance away, but if you physically get in their way they can arrest you. And resisting detainment or arrest can apparently get you shot.

The flip side is yeah anyone can be recording you at any time in public. We can make laws to restrict that but the burden to pass constitutional scrutiny is high. Because of that, I'm not allowed to film into your home from outside, that was deemed an acceptable exception. If I could get the restrictions I'd like to see, it would be dismantling the surveillance state they've put up with Flock cameras etc. The government isn't allowed to surveil citizens without a court order, so they simply contracted it out to private companies.

[-] REDACTED@infosec.pub 1 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

just accept being filmed at all times in public?

Funny you say that. There was a YouTube channel (that also spawned those NPC meme videos) that randomly went up to people and started recording them without context/saying anything. The idea was to bring attention to the fact that you're being recorded in public spaces constantly, by bazillion cameras around

Do something interesting and you might find yourself online by one of those cameras

[-] 3abas@lemmy.world -1 points 1 month ago

Nope. If someone is doing that, I can easily notice it and know it's a possibility and move/turn away. Just because I can judge that as probably not happening doesn't mean a phone being held is equivalent to a human literally just wearing glasses with their head turned my way.

Agreed.

Are you really advocating for the position that I should give up the fight and just accept being filmed at all times in public?

Assuming you're in the US, you have no expectations of privacy in public, and it's perfectly legal to film you in public. You do have to accept that, yes.

I'm sure a case can be made for someone approaching you and getting you to interact while filming secretly, and I hope she can sue him for damages. But simply being recorded in public is not something you can do anything about.

[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I am well aware of that supreme court decision. If hidden cameras mounted in glasses were a thing then, I highly doubt that ruling could've ever happened. Thanks for telling me what I have to accept though. Totally helpful and kind thing to do. Thanks also for the weird condescension. Exactly what the world needs right now.

[-] 3abas@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I wasn't condescending at all, and it didn't seem you were aware, I was trying to be informative. What a weird response, honestly.

[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

FYI since you pretend not to know: "you do have to accept [thing that didn't exist at the time a ruling was made]" would read as being a smartass to most people

[-] 3abas@lemmy.world 0 points 4 weeks ago

Gotcha, I didn't realize it came off like that.

Again, was trying to be informative, because not accepting it implied not being aware, and we all have to accept it.. or revolt and rewrite the rules...

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