What are some things that just get under your skin about games?
For me, it's games that do not allow controller rebinding. I have neuropathy and my fingers don't all work. If I can't rebind buttons so that I have necessary moves (for example: parry) be on buttons I can reliably press the entire game becomes unplayable.
And on console, where I can't refund a game after I downloaded it (fuck you Sony) then it really screws me over wasting what limited funds I have on games I just can't play.
I'm a "grown-up" these days, but I grew up with games and they're part of my life, and I love them - but in the larger scale of things, they're still toys. The requirements of a pet/partner/child/phone call/doorbell will always nearly always outrank them.
"We don't let you pause because it's a simulation and and you can't pause real life so it means the game is more realistic" = piss off