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Being misunderstood
(leminal.space)
I’m not sure if this is an ADHD related thing so I want some feedback.
For the longest time whenever I try to communicate an idea, a process, a plan, a piece of information … I’m oftentimes either not taken serious or people misunderstand me.
I know for myself that I sometimes skip steps in my explanation because I feel they’re too obvious to bother explaining. But sometimes it’s ridiculous to the point where I feel like people are out to dismiss me not on the basis of the information I’m providing.
Does this resonate with anyone?
Edit: thanks for all the feedback! This has given me some material to work with.
Communicating effectively is a skill that requires feedback and practice to hone. Try to find a couple of people which you trust to give you honest constructive criticism.
Additional advice: before starting, think carefully about what is the assumed knowledge of the audience (what are you sure they know already, what you m should you double check on).
For training, explaining something simple to someone that doesn’t know about it is a great first step. Encourage feedback and questions.
"Stop talking down to me." - willfully ignorant person.
Seriously though, that is great advice and involves continual practice.