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[-] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 4 months ago

Unbelievable. I don't even know what to tell you. When I have a UTI and the symptoms are still there but the infection isn't anymore, my doctors usually don't prescribe more antibiotics but instead painkillers and suggest drinking more water, walking (I know, funny isn't it) and maybe some things that can help with bladder regeneration. Most of them cost a lot of money, but they basically help the inside of the bladder to reestablish a shield against bacteria and viruses. I doubt this is helpful, but maybe you can make some use out of it. cuddle

I think the shockwave therapy is probably a lot more painful if you're not used to being in so much pain. I hope it works out and gives you back the ability to walk.

As for mutual aid, I honestly didn't see your post yesterday, I was barely online. But I don't think people are sick of you or annoyed. Most likely it's that so many people need help, and I know that more and more hexbears block the mutual aid comm because they can't help out or because there's a lot of mutual aid posts that are crossposted to other communities (I'm not happy with that either) and clutter the other comms. So someone like you who posts regularly but not as intensively could just fall through the cracks. There's no ill will behind it, I'm sure, just utter helplessness and exhaustion.

[-] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 3 points 4 months ago

Oh, I didn't know people could block subs in here. Yeah the world is deteriorating so quickly now, I guess everyone is burnt out.

What kind of things help with bladder regeneration?

[-] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 2 points 4 months ago

A lot of people are, yes, but that shouldn't stop you from asking for help. Someone can help, at some point. It's just never certain, unfortunately cuddle

One of the things is D-mannose, it's a type of sugar, ironically, that helps the bladder form a protective barrier against bacteria and viruses. Bladder teas of all sorts can help too. With the bladder teas you will have to check which ones heighten your kidney function because that might be an issue for you in particular. Bladder infections usually mean that you didn't get enough water, which is difficult if you have kidney issues.

[-] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 3 points 4 months ago

Thanks for the tip. I might give the d mannose a try, supplements usually don't agree with me but anything's worth a try at this point.

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