well the secret second family thing comes from families being seen by men as a thing to own. so owning more than one is gooder-er. so to combat that, you'd need to deprogram that idea. which would probably be one of the things for the re-education camps and what not.

after that, it depends on if we go for continuing to normalize monogamy or relationship anarchy. im poly so i'd think that the second way makes more sense if people stop thinking of romantic relationships being an exclusive thing (like we have multiple friendships but only one romantic relationship). but i'm not sure how feasible/realistic that is anyway because i don't really get the issues most people have with being poly. so idk!!

so yea, if we keep monogamy as the default then there will still be cheaters but it will be less gendered because we won't have the "man of the house" brainrot anymore. so basically im saying under woke communism we will have women with a secret second family