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[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I know I should get over it, but do you think it's 'ok' to be miffed about donating something to someone and not even getting a thank you in return?

It's been a month. I am mostly over it, but from time to time it comes to mind and it bugs me as someone who lives in a world thinking they've never mattered.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Yes absolutely. It's basic manners.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

If thanks isn't the first word that comes out of your mouth when given something, then there's something wrong with you.

Yeah, I'd be pissed off.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I’d definitely be pissed off. How hard is it to say thank you?!

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

If it's a person I donated something to I'd be pretty annoyed but I've been more and more noticing how people lack the common courtesy to use just a little bit of manners, which goes a long way.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Send them a note asking if they like it.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

I think that's a normal reaction to not receiving thanks - it's a simple way of showing gratitude.

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