im 157cm (5′2)
26yo male
i have been in a realationship for 3years
and i did had success somewhat with girls. tho sometime I feel like i need to work very hard, harder than my tall friends.
if im not on my top shape and lean i feel like im not enough, and given less chances with girls.
im pretty muscular, and have an ok face, i also pretty nice to talk to and tbh i never had a first date which the girl didnt want to go to a second date with me. but the height a lot of times made some girls not even consider me, and tbh 157 cm is like shorter than 99% of guys.
im thinking about doing it to get to 5′6 tho i also dont wanna be the guy who is known for doing limb lengthning surgery cause its like an insecure thing.
im pretty lost tbh. need some outsiders perspective ty
Absolutely do not do it. My friend was a similar age to you and died because of the surgery. He had a pulmonary embolism as a complication during recovery.
im so sorry to hear that. i didnt even knew its a possibility. i thought the worst thing that can happen (like pernament) is to walk funny and not squat as deep. sorry if my english is not good. not my first language.
Would the brave downvoters like to squalk about why my friends death was worthy of a down vote? Or are you just going to continue to not express yourself responsibly in life?
Ffs, it's lemmy. You gotta be patient before you start whining about votes. Your original is in the positive now, and would have done so without the whining.
Maybe I'm a little pissed someone would downvote a post where I explained a friend of mine died. I literally dont care about the outcome of the downvote/upvote ratio, im pissed more than 1 person read that and thought, yeah fuck that guy and his friend! I think I have a right to be a little pissed off.
But hey, next time you tell someone on the internet someone you knew died, I wonder how you'll feel when someone responds telling you to STFU and stop whining, claiming you only care that your post was in the negative, and not that multiple people seem to relish that your friend died.
fFS.
Also, just so you know, it isn't difficult to see who is following you around down voting everything you post or comment.
It's absurdly easy.
Since doing so violates the terms of service of pretty much every instance, anyone doing that would be pretty fucking stupid if they aren't using a throwaway account or accounts for their petty little hissyfit.
Kinda strange, isn't it, when some butthurt twerp decides to do that kind of thing out of the blue.
I was making a point, you seem pretty butthurt on your downvotes, eh? To quote you: Ffs dude, stop whining!
Nah, I'm just letting you know it's obvious what you're doing.
Well I'm glad you care about my well being because boy howdy bro, your first post did NOT come across like you were trying to be a nice, empathetic person. Ffs.
You do understand that you're still fuming over this more than eight hours later, right?
I'm not sure what your problem actually is, but that shit ain't normal.
You're assuming it was a person and taking it like some kind of direct attack.
I get that it's emotional for you, but maybe stop to think a little bit before over reacting.
Don't worry about downvotes there is some nascent brigading going on. if you are not an admin you can check a site like this, votes are public. what I'm seeing is old accounts -2 years in your case- that only vote and never post and weird accounts who either delete their posts after a few days or have weird posts still up. lemmy has some vocal fascist weirdos with their little bot armies. Chances are they will be following you around for a while like typical reply-guys. The admins of the better instances do a very good job of keeping them out, but they cant be everywhere all at once.