[-] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

I appreciate you for those words brother. I hope you will overcome what you are facing and get peace

[-] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

yeah i agree tbh the times when i got laid the most was when i was just not giving a f (but i did was in the best shape of my life tho..)

[-] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago

thank you i will think about it πŸ™

[-] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

im sorry to hear that brother. feels like we guys suffer in silence when it comes to mental health and dark phases of life. best of luck to you too. im sure we will both find peace soon πŸ™

[-] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

nice to hear your positive view:) i am so with you about clothing but in my case im short but not narrow so i cant just buy anything at all haha L to XL fit well on my shoulder but its like a dress for me and small fit well length wise but makes me look like a sausage and boy band memberπŸ˜‚ i just always go to the tailor πŸ˜… a lot of money:( sorry for my english πŸ™

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

yeah i guess you are right. its just that i feel my height is not normal.. like im not 5'5-5'7 which considered short,but normal. i feel like my height is extreme short and its like a legitimate reason for not wanting to date me and not because someone is shallow.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I have tbh guys. my ex which i was with for 3 years left me a year ago. and since then i dated with another girl for like 4 dates but i just couldnt see myself with anyone else but my ex and since then im depressed, because i cant imagine my self dating and building a life with anyone else and im very lonely and missing her even now. when im depressed a lot of the times i have the wrong habit to blame it all on my height. idk why. i hope it will pass. thank you all for all your help i didnt thought my post will get so much traffic.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I guess you are right. i guess im kind of depressed lately so i try to blame my height for it.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

yeah i agree its still short but i feel like its normal short. you know?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I guess you are right. i have to be honest when im having sad times i think about it more often. i guess when im done with this time the need to do it will pass.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

im agreeing with you in 95%. the 5%: I feel like my height is not in the range where im kinda short but its normal and if the woman rejecting me just on this she is shallow. 157cm is only like 7cm from being a legal dwarf.. its not only short... its like... weird. i would have agree with you if i was like 165-170 and cry about it. but 157.. its like shorter than most womens and not only short but extra short. im not self pity myself just to be clear im in a country where there is mandatory service in the military so rn im studying a fancy stem degree and regarding of taking care of my body im in the gym since 16yo (140kg bench and +70kgs weighted pullup 1rms thanks to my 164cm wingspan 🀣 ). but sometimes i feel i would do so much better if i would get like 10 more cm.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

you are right about that. im also thinking that if I will get this surgery and i will get some girl. when i go to sleep at night with her i will probably will think " hmmm, was she still dating me if i was 157 cm as before" and that will f with my head

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im 157cm (5β€²2) 26yo male i have been in a realationship for 3years and i did had success somewhat with girls. tho sometime I feel like i need to work very hard, harder than my tall friends. if im not on my top shape and lean i feel like im not enough, and given less chances with girls. im pretty muscular, and have an ok face, i also pretty nice to talk to and tbh i never had a first date which the girl didnt want to go to a second date with me. but the height a lot of times made some girls not even consider me, and tbh 157 cm is like shorter than 99% of guys. im thinking about doing it to get to 5β€²6 tho i also dont wanna be the guy who is known for doing limb lengthning surgery cause its like an insecure thing. im pretty lost tbh. need some outsiders perspective ty

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