▲ 867 ▼ Trans man uses women’s restroom to follow the law. Police detained him for it anyway. (www.lgbtqnation.com) submitted 1 year ago by andros_rex@lemmy.world to c/news@lemmy.world 82 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) So stupid. There's a good stand up bit that covers it - https://youtube.com/shorts/jrBlC3q0Fwo On a different side of the coin, the virtue signaling also bothers me. I was at a fast casual restaurant and went to use the bathroom and the sign on the door said "Gender neutral bathroom" and I was like "oh word, that's pretty progressive I like this place" and then I walked in and there's one toilet and a sink and the door locks. Motherfucker, that's just a bathroom. You don't need to specify "gender neutral" when it's a one-person bathroom. Fuck outa here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kassiopaea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) I've never seen a gender-neutral restroom that wasn't just a one-person bathroom though... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 child) I have. Floor to ceiling stalls, with no gaps. It was great. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) Yup, been in these and this is what I imagine when I hear "gender neutral bathroom" shared sink space and private stalls. Fully in support of this. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 year ago This should be the norm in any new construction. There's clearly room for it permalink fedilink source parent [–] Trollception@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (2 children) Many people I know with kids feel like the line is crossed when children are involved. Without kids it doesn't matter but once kids are involved in the bathroom then things get more sensitive permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago I don't myself mind sharing the bathroom with a <N-word.> I am not some Klan member! But when my kids are involved, I have to draw a line. Kids aren't old enough to understand black people and their culture. Black folks need to use the bathroom at home or use a black-only bathroom. I'll happily share a bathroom with a black man, but my wife or kids shouldn't have to. They're just not equipped to handle the complexities of the situation. Don't call me a racist, I just have concerns for the safety of children. Human garbage never changes. permalink fedilink source parent [–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago The attempt by the right to pretend like children can't handle knowing about the existence of LGBTQ people is horrible propaganda and projection. In reality there are a ton lgbtq children who are forced to be cis. If they knew about lgbtq identities and were given a choice many wouldn't choose to be cis. I say this as a trans woman who didn't even know what transition looked like or felt comfortable transitioning until decades after school. I would have suffered so much less in my life if all of this was explained to me in middle school. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Widdershins@lemmy.world -4 points 1 year ago* (2 children) I was at a George Thorogood concert and opened the door on a woman taking a shit in a portapotty. There were no lines so I just walked up and picked door number 2. What I'm saying is I do care a little bit who's in there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago You would have preferred a manlier shit? permalink fedilink source parent [+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) What part of "George Thorogood concert" do you not understand? This wasn't a shitter in the middle of nowhere. Locking the door is a lot more effective than trying to be louder than I Drink Alone. Yeah, you know when I shit alone I prefer to be by myself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago (1 child) So stupid. There's a good stand up bit that covers it - https://youtube.com/shorts/jrBlC3q0Fwo On a different side of the coin, the virtue signaling also bothers me. I was at a fast casual restaurant and went to use the bathroom and the sign on the door said "Gender neutral bathroom" and I was like "oh word, that's pretty progressive I like this place" and then I walked in and there's one toilet and a sink and the door locks. Motherfucker, that's just a bathroom. You don't need to specify "gender neutral" when it's a one-person bathroom. Fuck outa here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kassiopaea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) I've never seen a gender-neutral restroom that wasn't just a one-person bathroom though... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 child) I have. Floor to ceiling stalls, with no gaps. It was great. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) Yup, been in these and this is what I imagine when I hear "gender neutral bathroom" shared sink space and private stalls. Fully in support of this. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 year ago This should be the norm in any new construction. There's clearly room for it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kassiopaea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) I've never seen a gender-neutral restroom that wasn't just a one-person bathroom though... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 child) I have. Floor to ceiling stalls, with no gaps. It was great. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) Yup, been in these and this is what I imagine when I hear "gender neutral bathroom" shared sink space and private stalls. Fully in support of this. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 year ago This should be the norm in any new construction. There's clearly room for it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 child) I have. Floor to ceiling stalls, with no gaps. It was great. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) Yup, been in these and this is what I imagine when I hear "gender neutral bathroom" shared sink space and private stalls. Fully in support of this. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 year ago This should be the norm in any new construction. There's clearly room for it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) Yup, been in these and this is what I imagine when I hear "gender neutral bathroom" shared sink space and private stalls. Fully in support of this. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 year ago This should be the norm in any new construction. There's clearly room for it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lka1988@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 year ago This should be the norm in any new construction. There's clearly room for it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Trollception@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (2 children) Many people I know with kids feel like the line is crossed when children are involved. Without kids it doesn't matter but once kids are involved in the bathroom then things get more sensitive permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago I don't myself mind sharing the bathroom with a <N-word.> I am not some Klan member! But when my kids are involved, I have to draw a line. Kids aren't old enough to understand black people and their culture. Black folks need to use the bathroom at home or use a black-only bathroom. I'll happily share a bathroom with a black man, but my wife or kids shouldn't have to. They're just not equipped to handle the complexities of the situation. Don't call me a racist, I just have concerns for the safety of children. Human garbage never changes. permalink fedilink source parent [–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago The attempt by the right to pretend like children can't handle knowing about the existence of LGBTQ people is horrible propaganda and projection. In reality there are a ton lgbtq children who are forced to be cis. If they knew about lgbtq identities and were given a choice many wouldn't choose to be cis. I say this as a trans woman who didn't even know what transition looked like or felt comfortable transitioning until decades after school. I would have suffered so much less in my life if all of this was explained to me in middle school. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago I don't myself mind sharing the bathroom with a <N-word.> I am not some Klan member! But when my kids are involved, I have to draw a line. Kids aren't old enough to understand black people and their culture. Black folks need to use the bathroom at home or use a black-only bathroom. I'll happily share a bathroom with a black man, but my wife or kids shouldn't have to. They're just not equipped to handle the complexities of the situation. Don't call me a racist, I just have concerns for the safety of children. Human garbage never changes. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago The attempt by the right to pretend like children can't handle knowing about the existence of LGBTQ people is horrible propaganda and projection. In reality there are a ton lgbtq children who are forced to be cis. If they knew about lgbtq identities and were given a choice many wouldn't choose to be cis. I say this as a trans woman who didn't even know what transition looked like or felt comfortable transitioning until decades after school. I would have suffered so much less in my life if all of this was explained to me in middle school. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world -4 points 1 year ago* (2 children) I was at a George Thorogood concert and opened the door on a woman taking a shit in a portapotty. There were no lines so I just walked up and picked door number 2. What I'm saying is I do care a little bit who's in there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago You would have preferred a manlier shit? permalink fedilink source parent [+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) What part of "George Thorogood concert" do you not understand? This wasn't a shitter in the middle of nowhere. Locking the door is a lot more effective than trying to be louder than I Drink Alone. Yeah, you know when I shit alone I prefer to be by myself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago You would have preferred a manlier shit? permalink fedilink source parent
[+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) What part of "George Thorogood concert" do you not understand? This wasn't a shitter in the middle of nowhere. Locking the door is a lot more effective than trying to be louder than I Drink Alone. Yeah, you know when I shit alone I prefer to be by myself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) What part of "George Thorogood concert" do you not understand? This wasn't a shitter in the middle of nowhere. Locking the door is a lot more effective than trying to be louder than I Drink Alone. Yeah, you know when I shit alone I prefer to be by myself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] RedditIsDeddit@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent