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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

some women are born to be mothers. Some are born to be the cool aunt. Some are born to stay as far away from children as possible. It's fucking critical that you discover which one you are before it's too late. Big fat kudos to you for the self awareness many lack.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I love being a mother so much.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I love this for you, but knew it was never in my future. I told my mother when I was 17 that I was never having kids, she looked me dead in the eyes and said "good".

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

That's an excellent way to phrase it, thank you!

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Aye. I began saying at 8 that I didnโ€™t want kids and life has confirmed it was a good choice.

I am pursuing my childhood dream of being a cat lady.