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What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


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Anyone know what I mean? Either I mask into being much quieter and "mysterious" which does help me avoid eye contact, but I just feel like I'm being cool on purpose which is really goofy and undermines my confidence. Otherwise, I think the other personality I fall into is really, like, boring I guess? I basically roleplay as what I imagine a redditor who isn't bigotted is. Politics definitely plays a role there, obviously, if I feel the need to make a statement about a subject that is prone to set other people off I tend to hide my power level and say things in a very boring and "academic" way. But both of those definitely are pretty far from how I naturally am, and it feels like I'm being a little deceptive to my acquaintances who I don't know well enough to be myself with.

Also I don't mean this in a plural sense, I just mean that these are 2 ways that I contort my personality slightly to hide autism a little bit.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

ahhh i hope they can tell from my eyes that I'm smiling aaaaaa