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It is kinda ruining my life lmao. I have never felt this strongly for anyone. When we talk, I can ride that high for days. But then she gives me (what I perceive as) the cold shoulder and the depression I feel... boy. It's been like this for months. I cannot go on, man.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

when you say she gives you what you perceive as the cold shoulder, what are these interactions like? as far as getting over her goes, time and someone else are the only things.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Like, when we are in person, she touches me and everything and then says she wants to meet up and I’m riding the high for days. ESP when she approaches me first. But then over text it’s one word replies and not replying for days or not answering my questions and I don’t know what to do.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She might just be bad at responding to texts. That’s how I am.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Don’t do that. Don’t give me hope. (Please do that. Please give me hope.)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

i mean biases aside yeah it sounds like a bad texter, keep tryna hang

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

God I’m sorry, I totally know that feeling.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

maybe she's bad at or uninterested in texting. or maybe she's just trying to make her work day a little more interesting by flirting with you and unfortunately it means nothing. hard to say tbh. try pulling away from her a bit and see what happens. don't be rude to her or anything just don't go out of your way to talk to her/be around her/text her

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Hidden dyslexia