Melbourne

Hey Baku (and I really do genuinely mean this) do you want a hand? I've got an evening free, got a car and a pair of hands if you need.

Don’t do it perfect, just get it done.

What I used to do was get a backpack and put in my toiletries, toothbrush and a change of clothes, a towel, wallet, phone, music device. Anything delicate or expensive, anything I would want immediately or for the first night. That would go with me on the truck.

Then a green Woolies bag containing toilet paper, dish soap, maybe a cup and a plate and a tea towel. Maybe some muesli bars or cup noodles that you have or whatever. This is basically the kitchen and bathroom stuff you would need right away.

Then get either some of those airline carrier bags or sturdy garbage bags and pile anything non breakable in. Whatever you want to take. More breakable stuff might need boxes but you can wrap it in your blankets or clothes. Don’t bother too much with doing laundry, just transport the laundry basket. Books might need a plastic tub or box.

Ps. Sorry if advice is unwanted. This is just a way to break big tasks down and skip a lot of mental paralysis that would prevent me from starting.

I don’t really remember too much about my previous moves and the process is probably less neat with more panicking but I’ve done it a few times and this is probably how I would proceed in a time crunch now

One thing at a time. Set yourself a goal to pack 1 box, or 1 category, then take a short breather. Breaking it down into smaller tasks can help when the brain is saying don’t wanna. It will still be unpleasant but as the boxes start piling up you might start feeling better from the progress. Sending good vibes to you! Oh, and this is a place of your own?!?

so many hugs

time to phone friends and ask if they can help for a few hours or catch a taxi, it really is worth it