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Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

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I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Every other adopted Guatemalan mestizo man that comes back here ends up being an incel. I get that people can be ruthlessly cruel about height in the states but these guys just internalize it to an annoying degree where it’s the source of all their woes.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Men stressing out over height are dipshits. I knew a guy who was a 4'11" bodybuilder in his early 40s. Women were constantly throwing themselves at him, even though he was married. I've known multiple couples where the man is shorter than the woman.

It's a lot harder for women who are tall to find partners. A lot of men have big egos and feel emasculated by tall women (which is also nonsense). It's almost like women have different preferences or care about other things or something? 🤔🤔🤔🤔

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

My brother is one of those men 😂 wears flats when out with his wife because he can’t be seen as shorter than her lmao

I’m one of those short guys (5’1) in a healthy marriage with a 5’6 woman. I’ve had men assume that I’m very rich and that’s why she married me. They’ll make up any excuse to justify their view.

Surprised by the tall woman thing. I thought American men loved tall women with how they’re held up as the ideal beauty standard.

Edit: he wears pumps. That’s what I meant