Specifically, a dedicated server running Debian 12.
After a monthly sudo apt upgrade? (Is a monthly upgrade even necessary?)
Never? (unless there is a security update?)
Edit: I may be missing kernel upgrades. Those are probably good... I can't remember if I installed a LTS kernel. I imagine it would be unsecure to post an exact kernel version, however.
I just go to the lil power strip and flick the the lil removed power button when I go to bed, then flick it back on when I wake up. It keeps the kids off the Wifis when we're supposed to be sleeping.
I was the "tech guy manager" for my regional office, for a major telecommunications company, for a non-trivial amount of time. Meritocracy in action, folks.
I like your style.