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Toxic positivity rule (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Well, hobbies are another way to meet someone. Also via friends or family.

I think people should do whatever makes sense to them, theres no one best way. I was just sharing a different perspective, it’s not even necessarily my own 🤷‍♀️

Regarding what people like, yeah I guess the nicer way is to just accept that some people will have “bad” taste. Like a lot of people use MacOS instead of taking the time to learn and use Linux. Sometimes, under some circumstances there is an objectively better choice. Otherwise it’s all just what makes sense to the person at the time at hand.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Regarding what people like, yeah I guess the nicer way is to just accept that some people will have “bad” taste.

No such thing as bad taste, but if you can't really explain why you like something or give reasons for it then it doesn't make for the most interesting of conversations and makes one come off like a bit of a dullard, it's not surprising then that she's not able to make herself or her hobbies seem interesting to anyone.

I think people should do whatever makes sense to them, theres no one best way.

Sure, but that kind of defeats the point of asking someone else for advice when what makes sense to them doesn't work.