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at least keep you up to date on whatever threads you add to it. I find matrix hard to chat in as it's easy for people to get pushed out of the conversations and I don't like talking over other people either. I find one room kind of too limiting and it also kills conversation in that format, at least in my experience. I prefer rooms to chat in away from general chat where the loudest or more vocal will squeeze everyone else out, just by nature of the one room format. I also only have it on the phone which I tend to forget I have one at times.. so I miss messages while at my desk. The matrix server had some issue that stopped images loading in other clients unless updated so that's probably the issue, I find matrix quite disappointing and I still use discord though barely as I don't really talk to many people.