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If you don't want EVERYONE to participate in your community, then you should really make it private. (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I just got permanently banned from a community for making a single harmless remark on a single post that was right there in the main feed. It's not a community I'm super active in so it's not like devastating, but it is annoying

If your precious little community is full of so many delicate sensitive people who can't even be reminded that another viewpoint even exists, then you should really protect them by defederating and having everyone join your private website

The mod has literally removed like 75% of the comments and banned everyone lol

I don't know about anyone else, but I don't have time to read every rule for every community that pops up when I'm in view all

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

It's tribalism. We're unfortunately all guilty of it in one way or another and it has become more serious with the increase of social media use

I like this explanation in particular: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beyond-school-walls/202304/tribalism-in-the-age-of-social-media

Edit: to add, I am suspecting that I'm still getting brigaded by a group I pissed off last week. It really doesn't bother me if they are doing that, but there are people that take their internet points more serious than I do so there are definitely people in the fediverse that will do that to you

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If it helps, votes on here do literally nothing outside of the post they’re in. If there’s a lot on one comment, it gets sorted to the bottom and maybe collapsed, but that’s it. If someone is going around downvoting you, they’re just wasting their own time.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh yeah I'm aware. I'm not worried about it. I wouldn't have even figured it out if a couple of people didn't try to taunt me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

That’s… sad.