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Going back accomplishes being responsible.
You caused damage with your car. Damage to a life, but still, pets are considered property.
Edit also op was potentially damaged too. It's important to let the law handle it.
Driving off is the coward's path, it is also conditionally illegal. (Hit and run, property damage)
If you're worried for your safety, bring someone with you when you drop off your contact info.
I agree they should have stopped at the time. But going back after having left the scene initially accomplishes nothing of value. It may or may not be illegal. Already crossed that line. It accomplishes an arbitrary responsibility that serves nothing but upsetting the owner of the dog again. We're probably not going to agree about it, I guess. I wouldn't try to talk someone out of going back, but having been on the victim side of this (and the driver's side, with a cat, where I did stop and talk to the owner), I would not advise they go back after having already made the mistake of leaving initially. Best argument is "I had to get my kid to school" which, to the grieving family, may well sound like "my schedule was more important than your beloved pet's life." That's irrational, of course, but grief is not rational.
Unlikely, but that won't hold up if a ring camera got your plate and the sheriff arrives regarding a hit and run.