As a reminder, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It's for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.

even times I have dated queer cis people, it's kinda blegh. are there some good cis people? yeah ofc. like an ex boyfriend of mine who was bi said us dating was kind of gay, when like no you're a cis dude and I want to be respected as a woman, that's not 'kind of gay' you're just being transphobic

absolutely, even if another trans person hasn't been through exactly the same things, they're much more likely to be understanding and empathetic