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Do you guys have any incels you know personally? (hexbear.net)

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There's some guy I talk to who believes the theory that the top 20 percent of dudes get 80% of women, and that because he doesn't have a brad pitt jaw and isn't 6' +, he might as well just hate women because they'll never like him anyways.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Yea, but you'll never leave square 1 if you don't go up at all

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I also won't leave square 1 if I tried, so...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah you will, as someone who's been both a man and a woman, I can tell you that you definitely will. We aren't some foreign creatures, we're people just like you. Dial back that anxiety, keep the ability to take a hint, and you'll do fine. To cringe is to grow!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

No, I'm on disability and it instantly makes every woman I talk to uninterested in me because I don't work. No way around it.