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[Volcel Police Violation] Are you supposed to fondly remember the first time you had sex or is that just a meme? (hexbear.net)

submitted 3 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I just realised that "like it's your first time" has a positive connotation I guess, but like... motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can't imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

makima-huh I will keep it as real as possible with u - if u did not have sex during your teen years you dodged a MASSIVE bullet.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (2 children)

lmao, i was such a walking pile of eggy emotional issues, restrictive parents, and crying that there was a solid 0% chance i'd ever get laid as a teenager. i still don't feel like i "dodged a bullet" though

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I mean I legit unironically think it's better to miss out during your teens, feels less good if you also miss out in your 20s bocchi-cry

I haven't been single since I was 14 though and all I got was a fucking boatload of trauma that's taken twelve years and counting to work through normal

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

feels less good if you also miss out in your 20s

:yea::yea::yea: ask me how it's going

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Picking up knowledge to use later is what I'd recommend

Reading some books on trans sex and such. FTW is a good start too.

It's far better when you know what your doing and get good with just touch and how to play with sensation.

Those are things you dont get taught. You can teach yourself tho.