As a reminder, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It's for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.
Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.
unsure of the temperature of this take, but i don't think discussing passing and more broadly, interrogating physical characteristics in a negative or just a gendered light online can ever really be productive. it's kinda just an inevitable slide into tttt brainworms and self hatred posting when those topics get brought up in public forums like this. to expand I guess, giving advice on stuff like hair removal is one thing but some discussion more recently has been a few steps from like, lamenting skull shapes and stuff. that's a little hyperbolic, but I think you get my drift. it's not healthy to air that out in this kind of space.
fwiw, this is a problem that any online space centred around transness has a big potential to run into and I think the mods and rules here largely do a good job preventing it from festering too much. all I would say is please continue to keep a keen eye on that. the most revolutionary thing we can do here is foster trans joy and self love.
I would go as far to say the concept of passing is the mind-killer and people need to be encouraged to try to move past it. i know that can be a monumental task for some people but wanting to get there is the first step. some people (not indirecting anyone on this forum I promise) who have those brainworms fail to recognise that it's even a bad thing, and that's then a real problem.