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Ok so I'm newly single after a very very bad marriage. I had tried the dating apps a few months ago and go literally ZERO matches. I was frustrated but realized they are mainly just scams now. I deleted my accounts and gave up on dating for now.

The past week I uploaded a video of me hitting baseballs in my yard onto IG and literally got 3 women who slid into my DMs within a day ๐Ÿคท

Thinking outside the box, folks.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 32 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I got with someone by making her laugh and telling her about my weird unfinished story ideas and showing her all the weird nerd shit we're both into

It gets better, fellas bloomer sicko-wholesome

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

She self-identifies as a goblin and is under 5 feet tall and is a gigantic weeb and a fellow borderline furry

She's the type of weird I been looking for tbh

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

while not that same specifics sounds like when my partner and I met

so get ready for 10+ happy years

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

I'm really really happy for you, you deserve it!

When this happens for the first time it proves that it's possible, and if there's a decent human connection there, it feels like the whole world pouring affinity through you.

I hope you discover and learn a lot about yourself relationally (and about her too).