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Seem pretty obvious to me that you just ignore them or just give a brief nod and a "hi" like you would anyone else.
Oh, eat shit. "Women be misreading normal behaviour as creepy." Is the oldest sexist gaslighting in the book.
It's pretty obvious that's not what women are talking about, learn to read.
Wreckers will always be incredibly defensive, they are always the victim in all circumstances, but not just due to misunderstandings, they will always claim maliciousness on the part of others as a means to try and turn the community against each other and encourage paranoia.
We can see this here with this 2 week old account insisting that a long time, well respected member of the community is "gaslighting" them, when all Dirt_Owl is doing is calling them out on their misogyny.
Remember DARVO, this is the most common way people like this operate:
Deny
Attack
Reverse
Victim and
Offender.
I'm sure you can all spot this pattern in this person's comments in this thread(EDIT: Well, not now that their comments are deleted). This is how all manner of abusive and manipulative people can stay under the radar and get away with their behaviour.
The only gaslighting Dirt Owl does is when they eat too many beans while carrying a flashlight.
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