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Anon has an asexual gf (sh.itjust.works)
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[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Isn't an asexual girlfriend just a friend?

[-] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago

If you think romantic relationships are just sex+friendship then you're probably shit at romantic relationships.

[-] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

~~Why? I honestly don't get it. I want my partner to be my best friend, but I don't think about my other friends sexually even if I do love them like family.~~

~~I don't want kids so I don't think about partners in that respect. I do want them to be my last relationship though.~~

Edit: I'll leave it, but I just continued to read the comments and found an answer I understand and agree with. I just never put enough thought into it I suppose.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

That's the way. Don't let your growth be limited by a psychological chastity cage.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

unless you think that's hot. then maybe.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

i mean in fairness so is the guy from the greentext

[-] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago

or really good at friendship and probably not the best at sex.

[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago

I thought it means they reproduce asexually. So one day the GF will just randomly be pregnant with modern Jesus.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

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[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Budding buddy!

[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

I mean, I’m asexual and intensely sex-repulsed, and my wife is asexual too, and I am madly in love with her even after being married for eight years.

It’s romance and friendship; she’s my best friend and wife. I’ll kiss her, hold her hand, rub her back and feet, buy snacks for her, loads of stuff I wouldn’t do with my friends.

I mean, I bought a house with her. I wouldn’t do that with just anybody.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

No. Imagine two Catholics are dating and don't want to have sex before marriage - are they just friends? There's a lot more to romance than just sex, and I feel sorry for the partner of anyone who doesn't realise this

[-] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Like it or not, sexual compatibility and intimacy is very important to a lot of people, and a lot of partners. There is more to a romantic relationship than sex, this is very true. However, downplaying the importance of a key component of a love language does no one any favors.

[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

They aren’t downplaying its importance, they are saying that for some people, sex in a romantic relationship isn’t necessary. This doesn’t go for most people and most people do need it in a relationship but everyone’s experience is different

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Understood perfectly 👍

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Asexual != Aromantic

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Relevant Bojack Horseman scene It gets complicated when boats are involved.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Lol you can fuck girls who aren't your girlfriend

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