I am certain that I am a lesbian, as I am attracted to women and nonbinary people that consider themselves sapphic, but regardless of expression (masc, fem, or andro). I'm not REPULSED by dating men, I'm just indifferent, though back when I identified as lesbian before, I hated the idea and thought that people being straight was being shoved down my throat as all I heard was "you just haven't met the right guy yet" and all the girls I hung out with only liked men and talked constantly about men so I just felt alone.

Now, though, I'm just indifferent, as I said. They don't really attract me, but I do like male characters a lot platonically and connect with them so when I find a good MLM ship between two male characters I like, I think of myself and my girlfriend.

For example, I don't really wanna be WITH the hot heroic guy in a movie or show, but I do wanna be him and get the girl or whatever. (I'm comfortable being a girl and don't currently fit in with other gender labels though, I am not trans FtM)

Every time I got with a dude, it felt more like I had a platonic bond I could share my interests with at best, or just a guy I could show off so I could talk with the straight and bi ladies about having a boyfriend too. I, to be honest, felt bad for them because they seemed so sweet and I would be turning them down, so I decided to give them a chance and I was convinced I "needed" a man because my straight/bi girl friends would say "I need a man!!" when they were single.

And people could never relate to me, because I'd always wanna talk about the first attractive people that came to my mind: women. They would wanna talk about handsome boys at school, guy actors and characters, hunks, gay romance, etc. but I'd always like to talk about lesbian romance, woman actresses and characters, the pretty girls at school but "too bad they're straight". I'd mainly find sapphic girls I had a deep connection to attractive, though I can form a crush on almost any girl I'm close with at least a little bit and I'm super romantic.

Boys, in my mind, as in guy characters, were always fun to tease, whereas lady characters always seemed like actual beautiful people I'd crush on and get into relationships with.

So yeah, I've concluded that I'm a lesbian. Is this a "canon event"? Can many lesbians relate??

I am certain that I am a lesbian, as I am attracted to women and nonbinary people that consider themselves sapphic, but regardless of expression (masc, fem, or andro). I'm not REPULSED by dating men, I'm just indifferent, though back when I identified as lesbian before, I hated the idea and thought that people being straight was being shoved down my throat as all I heard was "you just haven't met the right guy yet" and all the girls I hung out with only liked men and talked constantly about men so I just felt alone.

Now, though, I'm just indifferent, as I said. They don't really attract me, but I do like male characters a lot platonically and connect with them so when I find a good MLM ship between two male characters I like, I think of myself and my girlfriend.

For example, I don't really wanna be WITH the hot heroic guy in a movie or show, but I do wanna be him and get the girl or whatever. (I'm comfortable being a girl and don't currently fit in with other gender labels though, I am not trans FtM)

Every time I got with a dude, it felt more like I had a platonic bond I could share my interests with at best, or just a guy I could show off so I could talk with the straight and bi ladies about having a boyfriend too. I, to be honest, felt bad for them because they seemed so sweet and I would be turning them down, so I decided to give them a chance and I was convinced I "needed" a man because my straight/bi girl friends would say "I need a man!!" when they were single.

And people could never relate to me, because I'd always wanna talk about the first attractive people that came to my mind: women. They would wanna talk about handsome boys at school, guy actors and characters, hunks, gay romance, etc. but I'd always like to talk about lesbian romance, woman actresses and characters, the pretty girls at school but "too bad they're straight". I'd mainly find sapphic girls I had a deep connection to attractive, though I can form a crush on almost any girl I'm close with at least a little bit and I'm super romantic.

Boys, in my mind, as in guy characters, were always fun to tease, whereas lady characters always seemed like actual beautiful people I'd crush on and get into relationships with.

So yeah, I've concluded that I'm a lesbian. Is this a "canon event"? Can many lesbians relate??

I have been told by this straight/bi girl who turned out to be quite racist (and homophobic, so she was likely but not definitely straight) so I stopped being her friend, but that’s beside the point, that “she was a lesbian too until she met her perfect boyfriend” and that I just hadn’t met my perfect guy yet. I am a lesbian. I’ve tried with guys and I only dated them because I felt bad for them and they seemed sweet. I’m more mature now than to date a man because I like the attention he gives me and feel bad, I an absolutely les (well i like enbies and women)

I'm not even romantically attracted to Squidward or anything, I just find his reactions so cute!!!

So, the TVTropes page states him to be Ambiguously Bi, as he is confirmed to have a female love interest (Squilvia) but not confirmed to have any male love interests explicitly stated. However, though I haven't seen the Sandy Cheeks movie, there is an instance, apparently, of him finding Sandy's brother Randy so attractive that he faints. A Sexypedia article claims that as of "Saving Bikini Bottom: A Sandy Cheeks Movie, Squidward is canonically bisexual, as he is seen openly simping for fellow Sexyman Randy Cheeks. Squidward's bisexuality should not come as a surprise to most fans of the show, or anyone who has seen certain theories regarding him."

In Squisery from Kamp Koral, there is the following scene of Patrick and Squidward seemingly doing romantic things together, like Patrick making Squidward soup, Squidward imagining Patrick as a blonde muscular guy while idolizing him and looking amazed and seemingly falling in love with him.

Plus, he is widely headcanoned to be bi.

So, the TVTropes page states him to be Ambiguously Bi, as he is confirmed to have a female love interest (Squilvia) but not confirmed to have any male love interests explicitly stated. However, though I haven't seen the Sandy Cheeks movie, there is an instance, apparently, of him finding Sandy's brother Randy so attractive that he faints. A Sexypedia article claims that as of "Saving Bikini Bottom: A Sandy Cheeks Movie, Squidward is canonically bisexual, as he is seen openly simping for fellow Sexyman Randy Cheeks. Squidward's bisexuality should not come as a surprise to most fans of the show, or anyone who has seen certain theories regarding him."

In Squisery from Kamp Koral, there is the following scene of Patrick and Squidward seemingly doing romantic things together, like Patrick making Squidward soup, Squidward imagining Patrick as a blonde muscular guy while idolizing him and looking amazed and seemingly falling in love with him.

Plus, he is widely headcanoned to be bi.

Full info for myself and anyone who wants to read this:

Kenji is 16 years old at the time of the Doki Doki Literature Club AU and 2 years younger than the second newest member of the Literature Club, his sister Nozomi. Throughout the AUs, he is normally and in the Literature Club AU, an assistant teacher. Since this is a work of fiction, it started when Kenji refused to do his work properly. He hated school so much and was bored by it and also refused to cooperate with his peers. His teacher made him do make-up work by completing a year of assistant teacher work, making him volunteer (reluctantly) to work with fourth graders.

Even though Kenji is already technically a kid as he is 16, he is a manchild who behaves much younger than 16, pretty much sometimes acting like a fourth grader himself. He genuinely has a kid-at-heart spirit and will also sometimes start bawling when something goes wrong and have the mentality of anywhere from like 5 to 10 years old.

Due to Kenji's reluctance and hatred of children, he is designed to be horrible at his job. He constantly leaves children to get hurt and have problems and will let children bully each other sometimes so he can be on his phone. He always has a smile on his face too, although a creepy one with a blank stare, though mostly he shows moments of genuine happiness.

He is shown to be gay or possibly bi, as he has a crush on one of the more openly willing volunteers, Ryuji. Ryuji is 15 years old, smitten for Kenji, and would do ANYTHING for him. Kenji also has problems with his ankles so he is constantly/usually in a wheelchair and also wears round glasses.

He is proven to secretly like the kids, however, and will be nice to them sometimes, saying stuff like "No one's ever done X for me before!"

TL;DR Kenji is from my Doki Doki Literature Club AU. He is 16 years old and brother of one of the members of this AU, Nozomi. Since he refused to do his work, he was "forced to volunteer" as an assistant teacher to 9 and 10 year olds.

Kenji also behaves like a manchild and due to hating children, he is bad at his job and will let children bully each other just so he can be on his phone. He often is shown smiling, either genuinely or with a creepy smile. Kenji is shown to be gay or bi as he has a crush on Ryuji, a 15 year old assistant teacher smitten for Kenji.

Kenji also has problems with his ankles so he is constantly/usually in a wheelchair and also wears round glasses. He is proven to secretly like the kids, however, and will be nice to them sometimes, saying stuff like "No one's ever done X for me before!"

Pleeaseee I know people don't like Kamp Koral but COME ON THIS IS SO GAY I SHIP IT SO HARD IN THIS EPISODE/SPINOFF!!!!! Does this count as representation of MLM relationships?? It can be interpreted as a silly friendly/platonic relationship but I don't see it that way...

Pleeaseee I know people don't like Kamp Koral but COME ON THIS IS SO GAY I SHIP IT SO HARD IN THIS EPISODE/SPINOFF!!!!! Does this count as representation of MLM relationships?? It can be interpreted as a silly friendly/platonic relationship but I don't see it that way...

Nadya, let's call her, this girl I liked, became somewhat attached to me and would spend a lot of time with me. She made a joke that I was her husband and that we should get married and live together, which I took as just that: a joke.

We started to hang out more, Nadya would compliment me a lot (I’d do likewise) and we’d help each other with work, but we could never hang out because she had sports. When i was 14, I realized one night I couldn’t stop thinking about her and even had a dream about her. I suddenly found her pretty as hell.

I started questioning whether or not I liked her, and later realized, “Of course I do!”. I also realized she always seemed to treat me slightly differently than others, but I didn’t know if it was because of my autism that everyone bullied me for or because of another reason. She would be very flirty and touchy with most people, for example, but never me. She would smack their butts and call them "hubby" and "wifey".

She would sometimes be moody, somehow forget when I had partners in the past (she forgot I had a boyfriend), and get especially moody on the subject of romance. I also realized even though she was sad when I broke up with him, she started to compliment me more and be nice after the fact.

She eventually sided with the bullies though and agreed that I was being a creepy stalker, but on the last day of last school year, apologized, smiled at me, and we made up again.

This was a WHILE ago, by the way.

I can't tell if I'm les or bi. I mean, I feel like I've liked men a lot especially when I was younger, yet lately with all the bad experiences with men and some of them being overly sexual towards me, I can't see myself dating one.

While I do see the beauty of men, I don't know if I'd ever date a man, and mostly I don't find myself attracted towards men. The people I find myself attracted to, even before I know their gender, are always nonbinary masc when they "look masculine", never people who identify as men.

I constantly switch between "maybe I like men" and "I probably don't", which could be me being bi and going through the "bi-cycle", but I also feel like my feeling like I "needed" a man in the past was due to heteronormativity and comphet and every woman around me being bi or straight and preferring men.

I noticed I could never relate to my straight friend who used to bully me, not because she bullied me, but because she would gush over dudes and would hate it when I gushed over women. She also found girls kissing gross but IDK if she still does, we were like 13 when this happened.

Anyway, I could never relate and always wanted to talk about girls and didn't really see men through "rose-coloured glasses" like a lot of girls my age did.

No one can decide this for me, but I need some help...