I think most people's immediate reaction to hearing someone refer to themselves as we may be the royal we instead of simply being plural. I don't have any issue or negative reaction to the idea of a plural sense of self, but we feels pretentious for those reason. It should go without saying that you can identify however you like, I just like talking about words.
Also, it's totally outside the ethical bounds of a school counselor to affirm or deny anyone.
The Google Nest Mini is a smart speaker, not the smart thermostat with a similar name.