I don’t own an Asus but I have recovered routers of other brands. It’s been years since I recovered a router so I haven’t kept up to date with the latest developments.
I assume that the recovery process you tried was the Asus Rescue Mode. If not, it’s documented here.
If that doesn’t work, many routers have a serial port that can be used to assist with the recovery. I found this post that lists the steps. It’s for a different Asus router but it will probably work on yours.
As you’ll see, it’s quite involved and requires you to buy a special type of serial cable (called a TTL-level cable). The cable is readily available on Amazon from a number of places and is not that expensive. It’s certainly cheaper than buying a new router. You have to open the router to connect the cable to the serial port inside. Then follow the process to start a TFTP upload of firmware.
Take a look, then decide if it’s something you are willing to try. You probably don’t have anything to lose other than a few $ for the serial cable.
Good luck.
I’ve heard that some satellite TV splitters are not good for MoCA due to high port-to-port isolation. That Amphenol is supposed to be a good splitter. But if you aren’t using all 4 outputs, maybe get a 2-way for lower loss.