It is that, a shitposting site, but it is also more than that. There are many of us here who, for better or worse, spend a lot of time and energy on this site. We care about the community that makes it up and we care about the direction it’s headed.
This is your actual argument. This all boils down to a "No Exit" argument. You are mad that the mods are "the look" in the Camus sense. You want the mods to recognize the subjectivity in your person, rather than seeing you as an objective collection of posts. That is an unrealistic demand for an online site. Given the history of philosophy and general human history it's a bit of an unrealistic demand on real-life people too.
Time is a limited resource, at the end of the day your only real option in any community is to care about the community in an egoless way otherwise you'll only feel burned and be jaded.
Don't remember the emoji guide so you'll have to imagine it:
Posting Online - Drake No
Literally Posting IRL - Drake Yes