Sharkwellington

joined 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'll read through those threads sometime. I don't think I'll be commenting in that instance though. Maybe I'll look around for a community that clicks better to interact with. I don't really have questions off the top of my head, sorry. I don't know what I don't know.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

"People I don't agree with are lying in bad faith."

I have no interest in talking to you.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 month ago (9 children)

This is my exact same experience. I ask for someone to elaborate on their stance, get told (not accused, told) I'm trolling. Ask for explanation/definition of a concept, get called an idiot shitlib and told to read some theory. Ask for civility, get told I deserve abuse for "endorsing genocide". (By the way, I absolutely oppose the genocide in Gaza. But I'm a genocide supporter I guess because I won't flush my vote third party this November.)

Hexbear is a community that expects you to conform. Every time there is a post like this, someone comes out of the woodwork and says "They're nice people if you talk like them and agree with them on everything." It's cool that you're not getting abused, but abuse is coming from that space, whether or not it is happening to you.

It's a shame because I would like to hear the nuances of their viewpoints, but I can never get them to tell me what they are. Always complaining that nobody tries to understand, but dogpiling on anyone that asks questions. Then they pull up your report history and tell you "It's just a little dunking bro, stop being a snowflake" for not putting up with it.

Users of Hexbear, if you're reading these words, do better. Nobody is going to sympathize with your cause if you antagonize outsiders that want to learn more.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

He's cheesed. (Sorry, couldn't help milking it.)

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago

It really is incredible that we have a way now to fund the jobs that can only be created and performed by a select few individuals. We don't need a corporation to create the job for us, someone with a specific skill shows up and society says "yeah we need one of those."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I don't post too much Star Trek but it felt particularly relevant ha.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Dax: Steamed azna would put years on your life.

Sisko: Dax, I don't want years on my life, if I can only eat steamed azna.

Deep Space 9

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

You forgot an A.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Something clicked reading this comment and I realized how much my tabletop roleplay matches the way I approach conflict in real life. I always go for high charisma and try to talk down enemies and resolve through dialogue. I'll usually go for persuasion before deception and intimidation. Likewise I'm super averse to lying and getting in heated arguments in my real life encounters.

Hmm.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

They messed up by not signing it in red pen at a 45 degree angle, that's how they got em.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Sorry yeah you got me, I ripped it off.

 

I make the face back.

 

My partner is into DS9 and suggested we watch some last night. For some reason episode 1 was not available on Amazon Prime.(?) We watched Past Prologue and A Man Alone. As someone who is only barely familiar with the Star Trek universe, here are my thoughts:

  • Sisko is a fantastic leader and also terrifies me. His smile makes me uneasy. "Go over my head again, and I'll serve yours on a platter."

  • Kira's morality is super questionable and I'm amazed they didn't kick her off the station after episode 2.

  • Bashir is a dork and also needs to take a hint and leave Dax alone. Clearly they aren't interested.

  • I do love Dax as a sort of early mainstream media conversation starter on gender. The Trill overall are just a brilliant way to frame the idea of how gender and sex work.

  • It's rough seeing Odo so accustomed to hatred. When he just dips behind a glass door to watch as a mob call for his death...

I'm surprised by the level of dysfunction in the crew. I sort of always saw Star Trek as a bunch of Space Paladins that always did the right thing but in DS9 everyone has their own motives and interests and it's super interesting to watch them come together. I think I'll keep watching and see where things go.

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