This is so weird to me, but sure, customs differ.
Around here kids today have penetrative sex from 12-13 years of age, would you rather they do in school bathrooms, back alleys, bushes, or somewhere clean and safe where they can also get help from a trusted adult if something goes wrong?
I would suggest they go to a play party, or just read more.
Loads of things inspire lust! Find that kernel, explore it in fantasy and use that openness/non-taboo to express what it is and/or how you'd like to explore it.
Anything can be a fun kink: silk ties, mirrors, feeding/getting fed, anonymous sex, fucking on the bonnet/hood of a vintage car on a countryside drive just before rain in early autumn, vanilla-as-kink, etc.
That's the lovely thing about kinks, it's just about being curious and open to explore what fancy comes to you. Some are keepers, some are best as fantasies, some aren't logistically feasible, some aren't timed right and some you just get bored of after a while.
Great! Looking forward to trying it out when it's done.
Meanwhile I'll be using a different app.
So, umm... if one would happen to want to... see... how the proverbial pudding was made. Uh.. where... would you suppose one should look?
Tl;dr: SAUCE plxz!
(gosh dangit she's hot both before and after)
Oof, living the saying "a beautiful body will make anything look good"
Question, as this is happening this very minute, how do we best go about handling this?
Should private lemmings (respectfully) contact the spammer, or should this handled by mods?
Mostly I'm thinking what is less intimidating, and/or lowers the risk of people coming off as rude. We do want the posts, just not all at once
Come by some time and I'd be happy to show you
Having too many issues with the web client to be able to post reliably as well
I don't think it's likely to lead to human extinction even if unfettered, but like ice ages and the fabled meteor, we will probably have a bottleneck event where most people, if not most species, will die.
Currently we're only on track for something like 2-3 billion people dying, and most of the danger comes from the migrations and unrest, which isn't really a threat to humanity as species, just society as we know it.
Depending on how far the noncon rule applies, I foresee an issue with media sharing.
Very little media will have explicit consent to be shared in our communities, or even social media in general. If we interpret the sharing as part of what you consent to (as is the case with OC but not revenge porn), no found media can be allowed.
If we allow the commonly used fair/similar use principle (found media may typically be shared in the same type of setting it was found) - how do we differentiate between found porn and found revenge porn?
If we mod as a response to reports, as in: we allow it until someone reports this being wrongful content, the rules will be fine, but obscure or poorly modded communities risk becoming seedy and drag the whole instance reputation down.
But these thoughts can't be novel, has anyone checked if there's a well tested out best practice to keep mods, community and admin safe?
Cismale here. It varies wildly with mood and available energy.
Happy, horny and ready for release: I can be done and cleaned in 20 minutes.
Cognitive block and need it for the dopamine: prolly 40-60 minutes.
Tired but happy after a weekend hiking or similar: 90-240 minutes.
Depressed: 2-6 hrs.
Indulging myself for full satisfaction: 2-4 hours. Maybe with another one, 20-90 minutes, depending on mood.