Hej! For Swedish speakers who want a chance to speak Swedish, I have an advice community!

I made an advice community for Swedish-speakers, and I happened to find one for Russian speakers. I'd mod, but I don't speak Russian.

It's called !advice_russian@lemmy.blahaj.zone

The moderator appears to have been banned

Ich sehe keine Community für Ratschläge also werde ich hier fragen.

Als ich 17 (NB) war, ich hab mit "Emma" (15F) ausgegangen. Wir haben uns getrennt, als sie 16 war und ich gerade 18 geworden bin. Sie sagte, sie wäre keine gute Freundin, aber ich bin anderer Meinung. Ich glaube, ich war ein schlechter Partner.

Ich fühle ein nervöses, kribbelndes Gefühl in meiner Brust und meinem Magen, wenn ich an Emma denke, und mein Gesicht wird manchmal heiß. Ich hätte nichts dagegen, sie zu küssen, und ich vermisse unsere Beziehung ein bisschen, aber es ist mir auch okay, Freunde zu sein, weil ich nicht weiß, ob sie Mädchen/non-binary Leute immer noch mag.

Was soll ich tun? Mag ich sie immer noch romantisch? Ich hab eine Freundin, aber ich bin auch polyamor.

Ich weiß nicht warum, aber ich bin so müde. Ich will irgendwie schlafen, aber auch nicht.

So, way back when I was FtM in high school, there was this bully I knew named William. William was dating Tiffany, who bullied me for identifying as a guy but having feminine interests, as she said, like art and music. I also did not have many friends, so she bullied me for that.

She even accused me of flirting with her when I thought she was kind of pretty, but I never TOLD her I thought she was pretty, she just assumed because I was awkward and tried to be her friend and I was a guy that I was flirting.

I was friends with Isabel in junior year. She was a freshman. She confessed her feelings to me but I saw her as more of a sister, so she got mad and pushed me away, being nice some days and yelling at me others. I eventually had a crush on her when she was a sophomore and I, a senior, which maybe started towards the end of junior year-summer vacation, but it was already too late.\

William, Isabel, and Tiffany, along with their friends, decided to crap all over me and Isabel became friends with William and Tiffany because they bullied me. She threatened me to stay away from them (They harassed me first) or her new boyfriend Tyler would beat me up.

WTF??

I ask as a butch lesbian (enby) myself. In Swedish, we have: truckflata or butchflata.

I suck at all 3 languages, but for femme I've just seen femmeflata.

I think it's just Butch and Femme in German, but I'm still kinda learning that.

Lesbians in German is lesben and in Swedish, it's "lesbiska" or "flator".

Hallo Lesben,

Ich bin Eddie. Ich lebe in den USA und ich spreche Deutsch, Englisch und Schwedisch. Ich bin deutscher und schwedischer Abstammung und Kultur. Ich bin eine Lesbe und eine Enby (eine Butchlesbe, um genau zu sein oder ein Wildfang/Tomboy). Ich bin 19 Jahre alt.

geteilt von: https://feddit.org/post/28290932

He is called Thaddäus Tentakel in German or Bläckvard Tentakel in Swedish.

He is called Thaddäus Tentakel in German or Bläckvard Tentakel in Swedish.

Hi, ich bin Eddie, eine Enby. Ich hab !Lesbians_DE@feddit.org und !LGBTQ_Plus_DE@feddit.org gemacht. Viel Spaß 😊

Hi, ich bin ein butchige nichtbinäre Lesbe und ich will mer Communitys für Personen wie ich

Like, she has Christian quotes and “believe in God” pictures/posters all over her wall, constantly talks about God, is intolerant of my eating problems and blames me for it yet is “friendly”, very capitalist and pro-gay yet anti-immigration/anti-trans.

Seriously, maybe I’m overreacting and this is not a stereotype but they kinda act the same… does anyone else notice this?