[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

That's what the, "friend" part of FWB is for. That's how we did it. My wife isn't demi, but she finds it hard (if not impossible) to get off with a stranger. It's an anxiety thing.

What we did is, we looked around for friends, people we liked and enjoyed being around. No pressure, just if it happened, it happened. And eventually we found people we vibed with.

I'm not saying it works for everyone, but with zero pressure on all sides, it did for us.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

Yeah, it's been pretty great, frankly. I used to do a fair variety of drugs, nothing too serious, but she never did. She once asked me what mushrooms were like, and I was like, "Why not find out for yourself?" so I grew up a batch after a shit ton of trial and error, lol.

She's my best friend, but it takes so much work. Everybody scoffs at how often, "communication" is bandied about as the key to a relationship, but yeah, it's that.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

You never know. My wife and I have been married for 20 years, and we get up to some wild shit. Just depends on the relationship. I wouldn't have thought we would even five years ago, but we have firm boundaries, and the timing was right to start branching out.

Might never happen. Might turn out that she takes mushrooms once and decides she wants to know what it's like. Happened to me, lol.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago

I'm very much against the death penalty. My state doesn't have it anymore, and good riddance. However, those kinds of checks are necessary, if it absolutely must occur.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

...don't we all? It's one thing to support basic human decency without going out of your way to defend a clearly predatory industry or person, as she did. As the lack of oversight here allowed this individual to rape 300 people.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

It's not that. She supported Gerard Depardeau. It was a controversy about sexual assault in the French film industry. There's a bunch of articles covering it.

[-] [email protected] 25 points 6 days ago

I hate that I had to look this up to find out if it was real. Thank fuck it isn't, but I don't even think that makes me feel better.

[-] [email protected] 25 points 6 days ago

I swear somebody told me rape was bad, yesterday. Brother, I think most of us fuckin' know. The ones that don't, aren't gonna take your word for it, lmao.

[-] [email protected] 41 points 6 days ago

Press, and family of the inmate, if I recall.

I believe it's very important that these executions are observed. If the state gets to operate with impunity and no witnesses, many of these states have shown they don't have what it takes to act ethically with regards to the death penalty.

Every execution would be, "flawless", with no witnesses to say otherwise. Many victims families most likely wouldn't care either way, so it's the rest of the publics duty to ensure that executions are conducted in the most humane manner possible.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

Oh no shit? I've been doing it wrong this whole time, thanks for letting me know. My neighborhood just got a lot safer.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

That's what I'm assuming as well, but the article didn't really elaborate, and I just tried to sum it up with the facts provided.

I'm ex-military as well, though. If someone raped me, and the justice system didn't do anything about it, I see the thought crossing my mind. That's exactly the way I'd do it, too.

"Oh my god, I had it all wrong, I just wanted to apologize! I know I was drunk/asking for it/didn't say no. I spent a lot of time out in nature to come to that conclusion. It would really help me if you'd walk with me up this trail I know, so I can have closure." something along those lines. Then BLAM. No struggle, it took three days to find his body.

Should have ditched the barrel of that pistol, and I'll bet she'd have gotten a lot less time.

[-] [email protected] 62 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

After reading the article, you'd be correct.

Based on the mediocre article, she accused this dude of rape in 2017. Nobody did anything, so she continued on with her life (Pornin', I suppose) and in 2021 she cold walked this dude out into the forest after spending the night with him (no idea what happened) and shot him in the back of the head.

Then the guys mother tried to find out who did it, shot some innocent woman, and then killed herself when caught by the police. Real shit show, but nothing really to do with either of her careers.

Well, except you really shouldn't try to rape someone that's ex-military, cuz they'll walk you out into the forest and blow your brains out, at least occasionally.

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