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There is some stuff that I "can" be doing, like voice training, but I just don't have the energy or willpower to do so. I'm trying my best, and recently my best has just been getting out of bed in the morning.

Overall, has been going pretty terribly. But I have hope that it'll get better in the future when my situation isn't so sucky.

Edit: Oh yeah I did get a therapist. They are basically everything I could ever ask for. Trans (nonbinary), ADHD, Autism (SELF DIAGNOSED which is huge), and just in general I really click with them. I don't think I could've gotten any better.

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Lilith's Voice Training Resource Compendium (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans_voice_help@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Bunch of random resources people may find useful, will update this post as new resources come along. Mostly from Reddit, any posts have been uploaded as PDFs to read.

[ A Mixture of Different Resources ]

https://transvoice.party/ - a website that links to some more resources and talks about other stuff
https://wiki.sumianvoice.com/wiki/pages/getting-started/ - Sumi's wiki. It's got a bunch of stuff with her own spin. Though you can see roots in other things too. You might find it useful.
https://selenearchive.github.io/ Selene's clips
https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/1cnqqttn.pdf Some advice on getting started
https://cramdvoicelessons.blog/ Scinguistics' blog. Their takes are a little bit divergent from the general consensus at times but there is value to be found!
https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/symceraa.pdf Mimicry advice from Jana
https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/kcemii5t.pdf Some advice on practicing from Kin Maynard
https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/5ksjvuak.pdf The Voice Book for Trans and Non-Binary People
https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/zraqbvzv.pdf Introductory Voice Training Resources Version 2.0
https://www.undeadvoice.com/guide trans voice mega guide
https://buymeacoffee.com/alyssavt/no-explanations-instructions-feminizing

[ Some useful Videos from Trans Voice Lessons ]

https://www.youtube.com/@TransVoiceLessons/videos Channel link.

https://youtu.be/oWmj73Ttp4E Learn to hear size/resonance better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fylIX28mlyY Practice advice

https://youtu.be/rvet1PwCoGY An ear training live stream

https://youtu.be/imdM3Cea4NA Voice surgery live stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHyVNIcw_XI some common myths

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The Voice Book for Trans and Non-Binary People (0x2640.estrogen.productions)

submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans_voice_help@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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A 261 page book going over voice training. May be helpful to some. Link if you can't access it from the post.

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Reaching Out For Help (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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After much consideration and fighting with my brain, I've decided that it's okay to ask for help in hard situations. So, I'm making this in hope that I receive at least a little bit of help. I'm asking for money, friends, and any advice you can give me. Everything counts and will help me during this rather terrible time. I'm Uni (name TBD) and I'm a 16 y/o transgirl unfortunately situated in the USA. You may know me as a regular on the Blahaj Matrix chats going by "Miss Universe".

So a little bit (a lot?) of backstory to sort of explain my current situation. My egg cracked October last year and it was both the best and worst thing that has happened in my life so far. Being a minor means that I can't really do anything about the fact that my egg cracked, I'm fully relying on the people around me to help me (which has failed). Put simply, as a minor I have absolutely no control over my body or my life, I have no money, no experience, and nowhere to go.

I came out to my mother and step-father (my parents are divorced) February this year, and while they seemed to be supportive at first they semi-recently turned on me and have been mostly unsupportive since then.

As for my father and step-mother, they are both actively transphobic republicans. I have no plans on coming out to them until after I turn 18, and it would be unsafe to do so before then.

Basically, as of now I have basically no support from anybody in my life and I'm completely trapped as my dysphoria gets worse with each passing day.

With my situation sort of explained(?), why am I actually here? Pretty much I'm here because I need money. Money for clothes, makeup, just stuff that can hopefully help me alleviate some of my dysphoria until I'm able to afford to do so myself (which as a minor is difficult). And also I suppose gas, in case it comes to it and I need to run away, even for a short period. I'm also looking for advice, I don't really know what to do and it would be really nice to have at least some semblance of what I could be doing right now.

I don't really know if any of that made sense, I'm bad at organizing my thoughts and even worse at asking for help. If you have any questions post them in the comments and I can probably answer them.

You can support me here on Buy Me a Coffee if you so wish, and/or with advice in the comments. Every donation counts.