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[-] [email protected] 39 points 2 years ago

bladerunner 2049

It’s a futuristic sci fi movie so it might not be what you’re looking for. Loneliness and alienation are central themes, though

[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago

I hadn't thought about it but yeah, that applies to nearly every character in the movie.

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[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago

Moon is such a fantastic film in its own right. Absolutely shook me when I saw it the first time.

[-] [email protected] 22 points 2 years ago

Pi

The main character is an unemployed mathematician with schizoid personality disorder whose social interactions are mostly with his old professor and the people in his apartment building. The movie is a thriller, but the main character's isolation from the rest of the world is rather stark. This is helped by the fact that it was filmed in high-contrast black and white.

[-] [email protected] 22 points 2 years ago

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Explore how it feels when you deliberately choose to lose a relationship.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Every movie written by Charlie Kaufman has elements of loneliness and they are all excellent

[-] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago

I can set up a camcorder if you'd like

[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 years ago

It's been a while since I've seen it but Cast Away is about being stranded all alone and dealing with loneliness. I have a feeling this isn't what you had in mind.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower is one of my favorite movies. Although he's not without friends the entire movie, I think you might still appreciate it.

The new Joker movie is definitely worth the mention. Although depressing, I really appreciated the movie. It's not actually a superhero movie in case that's deterring you from watching it.

Although I haven't seen it yet, Lost In Translation is near the top of my watchlist. It might be up your alley.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago

Moon - Sam Rockwell lives alone on the moon.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago

Edward Scissorhands?

[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago

Welcome to NHK is anime about a NEET. He ends up finding some kind of friends througout the show tho.

Also what you're describing is basically the concept of a doomer.

I am a doomer

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

+1 for NHK ni yokoso. It also touches on social awkwardness and things like that as well.

Overall a very good watch.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Ok doomer.

Nice suggestion btw, love that show

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago

Maybe not quite what you're looking for but Tom Hanks in "A Man Called Otto" might float your boat.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Oh I have something for you!

I just watched Beau is Afraid, https://m.imdb.com/title/tt13521006/ and it was epic. One of the best movies I've seen in a long time.

I would rate this as 7.5 and really don't agree with the lower imdb rating here.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago

Taxi Driver

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago

Does being lonely due to war and it's trauma count? If yes, I can highly recommend old soviet movie Come and See - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091251/ Just don't get discouraged by country of origin, it has no effect on the movie.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago

That's the darkest movie of all time. You can't simply recommend it willy nilly without a disclaimer. This movie is heavy.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

Indeed it is. It shows how brutal war really is. It's even more relevant today.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I'm not religious, but I literally felt what I can only describe as my soul dying and leaving a painful and heavy emptiness, during and after watching that movie.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I don't seem to recollect any movie at the moment but here are some TV shows or anime -

  1. Mr. Robot - one of my favourite TV shows, most people using lemmy might have already watched it.

  2. Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu - its about a very lonely middleschool kid's romance

  3. Koe no Katachi - very popular anime movie. Also one of my favourites.

  4. Bocchi the Rock - Anime about an extremly introverted girl wanting to play guitar in a highschool band.

  5. Re-Life - its an anime about a grown up guy getting a chance to re-live his high-school days as part of a experiment or something like that. It was pretty good.

  6. Lookism - its a Manhwa, but also has an anime. Basically the main character gets 2 bodies mysteriously. The original body is the ugly one which people bully him for and the second body is like that of a (male) kpop artist which people view differently.

  7. Death's game - it's a kdrama I recently watched. Although it doesn't exactly fit in with the theme of 'lonlieness' I thought I'd mention it.

P.S - some shows I mentioned here might not be as loneliness inducing as you think.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Donnie Darko

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Home Alone, hehe

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

So this is a bit special. It’s very very low budget, awesome and free: Pretend That You Love Me

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

Pretend That You Love Me

Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

I'm open-source; check me out at GitHub.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

"A Silent Voice" (anime movie) is my go-to when I want to feel profound emotions, even if it's crying about the fact that all my friends are hundreds of miles away or dead now and I apparently forgot how to make new ones.

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

Schultze Gets the Blues

Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

I'm open-source; check me out at GitHub.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

Stranger Than Fiction. Well, Harold does have his wrist watch for a friend, but he doesn’t know it.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

it still my favorite film after all.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

There is a great list here.

Also Wild Strawberries (1957).

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Night on Earth (1991), taxi drivers & passengers meet temporarily. Nobody's happy.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Jim Jarmusch always makes great films about unhappy people.

Dead Man is one of my favorite films of all time.

Come to think of it Dead Man is about social isolation, too.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Wit, about a professor of English lit going through cancer treatment basically alone.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

The Bothersome Man (Norwegian: Den brysomme mannen)

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[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Forgot about this one until just now. Definitely second the recommendation.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Swiss Army Man.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Not sure if it's exactly what you're after, but "Buffalo '66" checks the dark and lonely boxes pretty thoroughly.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

The Hunt is a great one but it's about losing your friends and their trust, after a misunderstanding. Be prepared to shed a few fears

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