Yeah, I don't particularly envy the ultra-rich. I love the idea of having enough money to not worry about money, but I want that for everyone, not just myself.
this post was submitted on 27 Jun 2023
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Agreed. I don't envy them at all, in fact I think there's evidence both anecdotal and scientific that being ultra-rich fucks you up quite seriously, and/or you need to be seriously fucked up to get that way. I actually pity them, to some degree. My pity is, however, eclipsed by my anger at a world that allows them to exist, in a cycle they perpetuate.
Frankly, I suspect pamela rutledge's out-of-touch words suggest she is beholden to some of their interests. I see much less envy than I see anger at the ultra-rich.
There is a certain amount of schadenfreude when you see the ultra rich suffering some self imposed misfortune but when I see the 1% I really just think that they need to go against a wall while the collective takes their I'll gotten gains to the tax man to socially distribute to those who need with housing then mental health and healthcare followed by education and jobs in infrastructure to bring our whole society into an environmentally friendly sustainable future.
Then again that is just a run on sentence of dreams.
You'd be amazed at how little it takes to be in "the 1%". Going by total wealth (instead of income), the 1% is about 3.5 million dollars starting. That means your average small business owner likely qualifies as "the 1%". Again, not quite where you really want to be addressing your ire.
The real abuse comes from, like, "the 0.1%" (starting at about 17 million) or maybe even "the 0.01%" (starting at about 78 million). And that means you're going to be eating people who have multiple homes whose wealth comes primarily from exploitative investments, abusive tax loopholes and other such shitfuckery, not people who worked their entire lives to finally own the corner store they now run.
I love the idea of having enough money to not worry about money
Does the worry ever really go away? There is always someone trying to take your money. While I don't know the life of the ultra-rich, I suspect that they have even more people trying to take their money than us average Joes. Perhaps with their resources they can hire a money manager to alleviate some of the worry, but then they have to worry if said manager will disappear into the night with their money; something that becomes increasingly attractive and worth the risk when the sums become large.
buhhh I'm sorry I tried to make this short, but it's really complicated.
The worry can go away because it's not tied inherently to money but rather an individual's needs not being met. While that's a problem every individual will struggle with to varying degrees, I see the ultra-rich lifestyle as one of the most difficult to overcome in this sense and in this case, "Richie" here is worried about the security of their perceived source of power, in simplest terms.
It's not even the myriad of comforts one can afford that will continue to draw you away from the discomforts one must overcome for self-empowerment like "Richie's" trust issues and lack of knowledge/understanding of the systems they're working with. It's the isolation from new ideas.
If you are not exposing yourself to new things, you will be looping through your habits and rituals day after day because it's comfortable. You will heavily delay the knowledge on why that's bad and continue to loop. Even worse would be to come to this awareness by luck - and faaar too early, as you'd have no knowledge on what to do about it.
That's depression. It's terrible. No way for anyone to live. You're left blind feeling the walls until you find your way, and unfortunately that's an option with a perceived easier alternative... What do you even do..? Continue to wait for the universe to maybe drop an answer on your lap?
Yes. Not ideal and we can make alternatives collectively, but until then... yes.
How many other factors are working against Richie's resolution? Was their parents inadequately developed emotionally? In that case, did they misinterpret reality and then push their beliefs onto Richie? Does Richie have peers they can trust? Confidants to consult? Do they even know how to read? how to research? How to even utilize and learn from said research as to avoid the bias they may have picked up from their peers?
To reiterate, people get stuck in the logic of our society and money, but it's not a money issue as a poor individual will suffer the same situation in a different package - it's a perceived resource issue. Exploring the semantics of why that is would probably be a great starting point to actually understanding the issue, but I don't think I can do any of these ideas the justice they deserve. I implore you to continue exploring the idea. It's great to empower yourself and maybe help others along the way. :)
As an alternative answer I'll iterate from my own personal experience - the worry of money can go away. Your world is limited only by your imagination. I think some big-shot nerd said that once.
Also I wanted to add, I have friends and many acquaintances who are million/multi-millionaires whom I've observed over the course of my life. The culture on that level is discomforting. Poorly-educated homes compared to educational access, excessive partying (drugs or purely social), and a really weird desire to save money? Like a good amount of who I've been exposed to, they LOVE shopping at thrift stores and getting deals, which ironically ties-back to the article here.
Weird!
I think a lot of it comes from us being sold the idea that the ultra-rich got where they are through hard work and intelligence. "The American Dream," etc.. When things like this happen, it proves that the ruling class are just as stupid as any Joe-blow off the street.
"A small loan of a million dollarsβ¦"
Generational wealth is finally (maybe) being discussed as a big issue and one which skews figures for one trying to break down our economic disparity problems. I hope it ends up helping because something has to give.
Part of the problem is that this has really laid bare the fact that we don't tax these people enough.
We see price increases on daily essentials and home ownership--hell, even home security, in the "I'll have a roof over my head" sense--is increasingly a pipe dream, and here we have multimillionaires and billionaires who can afford these dalliances but, curiously, fight tooth and nail against tax increases and social services meant to lift all boats. And we're told that we need to tax them less so that they can be "job creators" or somesuch nonsense...
...and then once again we end up bailing them out, this time literally as well as fiscally.
I think we're all very tired of handouts to the rich, especially since we've had so many examples of how they're not really that much smarter, despite what we're told. They're not Galtian supermen, they're by and large either lucky to be born into wealth and/or sociopathic to become rich on the labour of others. And despite the media's attempt to recast this little escapade, that PR is no longer working.
not really that much smarter ... or sociopathic to become rich on the labour of others.
They must be at least enough smarter to not fall into the giving labour to the sociopaths trap?
To me, they were people doing a super risky thing who died doing that risky thing. It's a shame, but they made the choice to do that super risky thing.
What annoys me is the "privatize the wins, socialize the losses" aspect. I'm pretty sure these guys weren't paying any taxes to Canada, but it's Canada paying for the search and rescue operations. Making it extra galling is that the owner cut corners, presumably to increase profits. Sure, high profits hopefully means high taxes somewhere, but even at $250k/pop the profits would never be enough to pay for the Search and Rescue efforts that that corner cutting was going to eventually require.
Yeah, cutting corners to make himself more money, and then we the taxpayers have to foot the bill for it. It's the reason we have things like "sin taxes". We allow people to make risky decisions because it ends up costing us more in things like medical expenses to treat their self imposed aliaments. In cases of gross negligence like this you should be on the hook for the costs to the emergency services.
The main unfortunate thing I find about all this meanness is that it garners me downvotes when I point out the 19-year-old who got dragged into this.
I hope he went into it knowing the risks as well, at least. Like I said, I'm sorry they died, even if it was kinda their fault a bit. (The active lava field guy was last years Darwin Award winner for self-selecting out, if nobody gets the reference)
The father's sister (the 19 y/o's aunt) said that he was terrified to go and was only doing it because his dad was obsessed with the Titanic and it was near father's day. I feel bad for him.
Kids die all the time (like the migrant kids) and at least this kid got to live a 1%er lifestyle for 19 years. Not much of a consolation prize for an early death, though...
Damn, that's heartbreaking.
"At least in the States, we love heroes and we love rich people
Obviously spoken by an independently wealthy person.
I dunno. The US has always been big on their hero worship, and they also have a long tradition of celebrating the people who claim to have pulled themselves up by their bootstraps
The US has always been bi on their hero worship
Even straight dudes think Captain America is a snack.
I've seen some pretty callous attitudes towards the victims based on the fact that they were wealthy. And while there is plenty to be said about the ethics of hoarding money, I would almost never advocate for the death of another regardless of their crimes.
Stockton Rush was the truly reckless person here, and there is certainly humor to be found in his disregard for safety bringing about his own demise. Especially considering how much it seems to echo the story of the mass grave he built the Titan to visit. He swindled people into taking a ride on his budget deep-submergence vehicle. If anyone "got what they were asking for", it was him.
Who I feel bad for are the friends and families of the victims. Rush and everyone else never even had time to process the fact that something was wrong before getting compressed down to the size of a tin can. But their spouses, children, friends, and relatives didn't make the decision to take this risk. They woke up Monday to learn that their loved one went missing, and learned of their death on Thursday. No amount of money in your bank account really changes the math here, this is a truly horrifying ongoing experience for them just as much as it would be for you or me.
None of this will stop me from enjoying some good old fashioned gallows humor. There has certainly been a lot of amusement to be had dissecting Rush's recklessness, his scary comments about regulations impeding innovation, and the questionable design of the Titan. But I choose to leave his victims out of it.
You have a good heart.
The thing is Rush was by all accounts a smart guy and not a swindler. Obviously, he really believed his thing was safe, what with being on it and all. I suspect this will be a case of an elite expert that thinks knowing his field in and out means he knows everything. I usually call it "Ben Carson syndrome", haha.
But the thing is, he wasn't a smart guy and was a swindler.
His background is in aeronautics, not marine engineering, so he was trying to apply knowledge meant for 0-1 atm of pressure to engineering a vessel to withstand 400 atm of pressure.
Just like everyone in the submersible world is coming out of the woodwork saying they all knew about his designs and told him not to do it, he was also known in the oceanography world (my field of research) - he (or others from oceangate) would show up at the conferences and be on the tech expo floors, especially in his early years, and try to convince us all that we should be using his subs to do our research. He wasn't pitching for us to do anything new or innovative with our research, just that he could attach our tech to his sub and go out there with it instead of towing it behind a boat, taking measurements remotely, using an ROV/AUV, etc. A) we already have tried and true methods of collecting or data, and in order to publish our data it needs to be reproducible in order to be peer reviewed, so why would we collect data with a method that would be best impossible for anyone else to do, B) why would we go through that risk of an untested method when the method isn't our research, C) there wasn't a chance that our research grants would cover the cost, D) there wasn't a chance that our research institutions would insure us or our research for it. He really wanted to be part of the research world to show this was an important part of research and prove the legitimacy of his creation, but he was barking up the wrong tree. He was coming to those of us that were doing acoustic data collection of the seafloor and saying we could be in the sub while the data is being recorded - but there's no benefit to that, or teams that take measurements that are taken regularly over a period of time which would require multiple deployments instead of planning a sensor that is checked remotely regularly. He really tried selling it hard though. Maybe if he went to the animal behaviorists that always say "I wish I could just see when they do ______" whatever behavior it is that has never been seen by humans because it's underwater and too far to dive - but chances are the appearance of a strange bubbling metal vessel with a light will scare it off.... This is what ROVs are for.
Anyway, since he couldn't get anywhere with the research angle, he started hawking it to his rich acquaintances and friends of friends. He still claimed to them that the overall goal was to have it be used as a research tool, so I don't know if the Titanic dives were a means to an end or a detour that would continue, but either way, he knew he had these acquaintances that had the will and the means to pay massive amounts of money for limited access adventure experiences and exploited the Titanic.
I feel like you didn't contradict me there. His field ~~was aerospace engineering~~, and he seemed to think being good at it made him a submarine expert, too.\
Edit: He never designed planes professionally, it seems, he only did various adjacent jobs.
Doesn't that make him not a smart guy? If he's not willing to listen to the people who are experts in the field he's trying to transition into and instead think that his knowledge of a completely different field not only makes him an expert in it, but able to completely "change the game"
That's a matter of semantics. I'd say it doesn't nullify being an aerospace golden boy, and it's actually really common among specialists, especially engineers for whatever reason, so yeah he was still smart. Just maybe not wise.
Nobody is questioning his aeronautics skills - he may have done well, he may not have. Considering he didn't go into that field and choose to do adventure tourism in space or research in space, I'm betting he couldn't hack it in that field either. But we don't have anything to go on because he chose not to showcase those skills.
What he did choose to showcase was his ability to translate those skills to the ocean environment - which he failed at, significantly (ie, not smart). And when experts in the field offered their sincere advice, he showed arrogance, a classic sign of "not smart". His own team tried to recommend different tests and different materials and he fired them instead of listening to them, not smart.
He had every opportunity to make smart decisions. People who are specialists and are very smart definitely work on projects in other fields, but they know they are specialists and know when they've hit their limit of translating their skill set and when to take the advice of others. Yes, there is a difference between smart and wise, but this guy was not smart.
Considering he didnβt go into that field and choose to do adventure tourism in space or research in space, Iβm betting he couldnβt hack it in that field either.
Hmm, I remembered it slightly wrong. He had a career as a pilot and flight-test engineer, and set records for being certified on certain planes the earliest of anyone, but it looks like you're right, he wasn't ever a design engineer. He went into the business end of aeronautics after that.
The submarine thing came out of a midlife crisis, which is another disturbing part of it.
I'm not going to bother arguing over the definition of "smart". Natural language is fundamentally imprecise. How about we just agree that he made bad decisions and call it a day?
I feel bad for the kid, who had the opportunity to be better than his origins, but you fundamentally cannot be anything other than evil while being that rich. As such, there's one death to mourn and like four to actively celebrate.
As such, there's one death to mourn and like four to actively celebrate.
No death should be actively celebrated, imo. No matter who they were, or what they've done, they were people. Every single human being that has ever existed, or will ever exist, deserves at least the same level of baseline respect. And for me, that includes not celebrating their death.
I'm not telling other people not to feel the way they do, to be clear here. Emotions are individual, and no emotion is inherently wrong to feel. I just want people to leave me out of that celebration, and not assume I feel the same way they do.
(I realize that I started this thread here, so obviously not talking about you in particular. More people on the other parts of the internet I visit that don't take "please don't have this conversation with me" as a valid response to a topic I dislike)
No death should be actively celebrated, imo. No matter who they were, or what they've done, they were people. Every single human being that has ever existed, or will ever exist, deserves at least the same level of baseline respect. And for me, that includes not celebrating their death.
You're right, it is tragic that Hitler died.
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