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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

hey there hexbear nd gang! it's that time of year for the first time ever!

here we are once again approaching the end of the year according to the roman imperial calendar that we all have to use for some reason. it's the winter holiday season in the global north, a time of great symbolic significance to many people.

and so, i want to solicit your thoughts about this community, what it means to you, how you'd like to see it evolve, changes in moderation policy, suggestions for thumbnail and banner images, or anything else related to the comm or neurodiversity in general.

or just come hang out!

i also want to invite applications for new moderators for this comm. what would you like to do as a moderator for c/neurodiversity?

personally i've largely been a placeholder, but i do love this community and i want to see it grow as a shared and safe space for our neurodivergent comrades to talk about ourselves and with each other. i also want to do better and want your input about what that means.

c/nd has a well behaved user base so we don't need extra mod help for enforcement or anything like that. what i'm mainly looking for is fresh perspectives on community engagement and growth.

there is absolutely no requirement to disclose any personal information about yourself, just to make that clear. but if you're interested in moderating this community, please contact @[email protected], myself, and/or the other nd mods with an application.

if deadlines help motivate you, you have 3 days from the time you read this.

if deadlines harm your motivation, don't worry about it. if an application comes in a month or two from now of course we'll still consider it. this isn't a job, i'm just asking for volunteers to help moderate a small internet message board.

Application

What is your Hexbear username?

Do you have any preferred pronouns?

What are your thoughts on capitalism?

What are your thoughts on imperialism?

What are your thoughts on trans rights?

What are your thoughts on racial justice?

What are your thoughts on neurodiversity?

What do think about current and previous protests around the world?

What are your thoughts on Veganism and Animal Liberation?

Do you have any experience with other leftist online communities? What did those experiences teach you?

What is your approach to moderation, and how do you work with teams?

How do you deal with online drama and people who try to start things for the sake of it?

Do you have any ideas for c/neurodiveristy community engagement?

What is your general time availability? (amounts, common browsing times, etc)

Element information

Element is a messaging app that lets you talk to people over the Matrix protocol.

To get started, check out this link, where you can choose to either download Element for your platform or, if on a computer, open it in a browser ("Launch Element Web").

The instructions that follow are for the desktop application and the web application, but the process is similar on all apps:

  • Press "Create Account"
  • We host our own Matrix server, so if you want you can change matrix.org to chapo.chat. This is completely optional; users who sign up with a matrix.org username can still talk to people with chapo.chat username. (Note: It is chapo.chat, not hexbear.net. Also, registrations aren't always open on chapo.chat; if they're not, just create an account on matrix.org)
  • Fill in a username and password
  • Hit register, and you're done!

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

Not me taking the scary-ass leap into going back to college because it turns out that having just a bachelor's degree in a social science isn't good enough. So I'm quite literally just going there to try again and get a STEM degree. porky-happy is firm: It's STEM only. Sure, grillman will nag you that millennials should all become plumbers while the boomers and gen x keep living it up in their cushy white collar jobs, but fuck that. I'm on the spectrum so at least it will get me back to learning how to talk to people. Because apparently I need to get some best friends because having BFFS to partially get the job for me is part of the job hunting process.

Fuck porky-happy. What the hell have neurodivergent people done to him?

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

Knowing doing something will make me happier doesn't motivate me to do it. Idk what I need

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

In the past year, three friends/acquaintances I know independently disclosed to me that they're questioning if they're autistic. As in, they reached adulthood without any kind of diagnosis. Two of them are also coworkers of mine. Would the book Unmasking Autism be a good choice to learn more? I think I already have a good functioning relationship with all of them, so I don't think it changes much, but I'd like to understand it better anyway

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm halfway through and it's sort of life changing. Not only is he covering things that are very much me, but he covers autism and neurdivergence from a 10,000 foot view and it's really helping me understand autistics that have various different sets of qualities in them that aren't the same as my own.

I think I know me, and it's helping me understand me in a bigger way than I ever could have imagined before my diagnosis but it's also helping me understand my other autistic friends and by and large my big ass circle of neurodivergent friends in a whole new way. It's really eye opening and I absolutely think you should recommend it for them.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I read it on ReadFanon's recommendation, it has a very modern outlook centered on the autistic person's need and not that of society / family etc. It's good

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

So if I wanted to get on something like adderal to help with concentration issues, how would I do that?

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

talk with GP about getting a referral to a specialist (psychiatrist) to "help find the cause of concenctrariok issues", get diagnosis there, ask psychiatrist if medication could help

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

To all potential applicants, I hope we can have you onboard

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Leaving a note here: I'll go away for three weeks

@[email protected]

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Leaving a note here: I’ll go away for three weeks

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What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


Rules

1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them

2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence

2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals

3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven't personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you're ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another's, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who's experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm'd.

3.5) everyone has their own lived experiences, and to invalidate them is to post cringe. comments will be removed on a case by case basis depending on determined level of awareness and faith

4.) Interest Policing will not be tolerated in any form. Support your comrades in their joy!

Further rules to be added/ rules to be changed based on community input

RULES NOTE: For this community more than most we understand that the clarity and understandability of these rules is very important for allowing folks to feel comfortable, to that end please don't be afraid to be outspoken about amendments and addendums to these rules, as well as any we may have missed

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