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Does anyone feel like they’re missing social cues that neurotypical people understand without being taught? I’m missing out on career opportunities because of it. Does any type of guide/rulebook exist to effectively mask?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The book "What Does Everybody Else Know That I Don't?" may be what you're looking for.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Step 1: Read How to make friends and influence people. Step 2: Cry, bc half the book is "listen and pay attention"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is the one I’ve found most helpful, especially the last chapter:

http://www.afieldguidetoearthlings.com

I don’t know if it helped me mask better, but it made neurotypical behavior seem less confusing and more predictable.

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