cross-posted from: https://lemmy.today/post/57413346

I played Nine Sols recently and it had a transformative effect on my gaming experience. I've found myself no longer getting mad at fairly structured games and deeply enjoying the personal refinement of my skill set in pursuit of a goal. Suddenly this shift in perspective has allowed me to see difficulty in a new light and truly savor the victory that comes after significant effort. With this new perspective, I decided to try the game that had made me hesitate the most with its reputation for difficulty: Sekiro

Its been truly eye opening to realize that my nervousness has only kept me from a good time. Or maybe I just wasn't ready for it...

Following that trend, I started Celeste for the first time even though I never play pure platformers, and it has blown my socks off. Do I suck? You bet your ass I do. But I know it's from a lack of detailed platforming, and developing that skill has been very fun and satisfying.

Now, I'd love to hear from others. What games made you regret waiting so long to try them?

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[–] 39 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Recently it was Balatro that I played for the first time 2 months ago.

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    [–] 32 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Baldurs Gate 3. Seemed expensive, complicated, and not my type of game at the time.

    Oh, how wrong I was.

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    [–] 27 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

    Dark souls. I tried it a few times and dismissed. I returned to DS2 when DS3, at the request of a fanboi friend.

    Accepting defeat, dusting myself off and surpassing all odds changed my mentality and patience with gaming forever.

    Fuck me big bad boss? No, fuck you

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    [–] 22 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

    undertale and deltarune. i kinda always dismissed those games as youtuber fandom shit, if that makes sense… stuff made to appeal to fandoms who love to pull nonsense out of their asses to make the games deeper than they really are. game theory bait. and i’ve heard so many horrors about the utdr fandom, it made me want to steer clear of the games. and i figured, since i already got spoiled a ton of stuff from undertale through cultural osmosis, what would be the point of playing it?

    but they still interested me somewhat, since i heard from more people that they were actually really good… and i got spoiled one more thing i didn’t know, and i figured if i want to play these games someday, i have to do it now so my enjoyment of them isn’t ruined more by just existing on the internet

    so i did! i played undertale twice in a row (i didn’t do everything needed to get the pacifist ending the first time), and the first 2 chapters of deltarune right after that (only those were released then). and oh my, i’m glad i did because these are some of my favourite games now. tho i still think I would’ve enjoyed undertale so much more if i hadn’t been spoiled a bunch about it…

    don’t judge games by their fandoms. things are often popular for a reason, and fans of something often lack the creative experience of the original creators (which is not to say that there isn’t good utdr fan content, there is, a ton! but there’s also a lot of crap)

    i still dislike the gaster theorists tho

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    [–] 21 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Undertale/deltarune. I played a demo for one of them (I forget which) and I found it too handholdy with not enough happening. Of course the games get a lot more fun after the tutorial section, but for me at the time it just felt too dragged out, so I didn't properly play them until a few years later

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    [–] 21 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Pacific Drive

    It was hitting my suggested sections for almost two years, all my game searches, tags, and algorithms. I brushed it off as some wandery nothing indie game.

    It came out in 2024, but then this year 2026 a few months ago, I finally decided to give it a ahot and it was NOTHING like I thought it was. Also, a lot more blatantly queer first and deeply queercoded, which is an extremely refreshing change.

    I'd been playing games like snowrunner and expeditions, and waiting for the steam frame to come out to play a bunch of vr games, so a cozy horror survival driving game that feels kinda like gta meets raft meets forza or snowrunner or something was not in my expectations.

    It's technically a roguelite extraction survival crafting story adventure rpg, kind of. Horror-lite, fantastic fresh soundtrack, based in an alternate timeline 1990s USA Washington State Olympic peninsula. It's done quite well and I don't want to finish it, though I'm close. It has some mods through Nexus mods, but most are primarily to make things easier balance-wise. No workshop support, doesn't run great on steam deck but does run okay if you turn the graphics down all the way. Has probably the best dualsense controller integration I've played in a game, though, I generally don't play many that have native support for dualsense features because they all look boring to me.

    Anyway, if you like Washington State, driving, crafting, music, and you're gay, give it a try. It's only single player, though, and expect to put 40-60 hours in it. I've got about 90 so far without the expansion and am avoiding finishing it because I like it. Most of the bad reviews are from two camps: homophobes and people who this niche game doesn't quite fit. But if what I've described to you sounds attractive, seriously give it a try. It goes on sale for about ten bucks USD. You don't need any dlc, there are a few skin packs that give you infinite usage uniques, the soundtrack, and an actual expansion that seems like a totally separate gamemode that I plan on playing after I beat the story.

    I do strongly suggest using a dualsense controller if you have one.

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    [–] 20 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    I just made it to Act 2 of Baldurs Gate 3. I'm obsessed.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago* (1 child)

    I've just made it to the city! I'm at about 250 hours so far, but TBF I am a very slow gamer. Yeah, it just keeps getting better and better as you go.

    I actually feel like I might be missing out on a lot, because I pretty much stick with the same party. I could see myself finishing and wanting to start a completely new playthrough with different companions and making different choices.

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    [–] 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Bloodborne

    For years I had it in my library, I would restart it every couple of months and give before the first boss. Then one day I decided “fuck it, I’ll do it”. After 2 miserable weeks I finally got to Vicar Amelia and got hooked like I had never been

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    [–] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I just picked up titanfall and binding of isaac for peanuts in the last steam sale and I am having a ball!

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    [–] 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Not recently but Sleeping Dog. Always looks to me as cheap gta clone but wow this is the hk police drama that the game industry lack. The driving is more arcade-y which is fun.

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    [–] 14 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Stellar Blade. Only just played it a few months ago.

    I thought it was just a gooner slop imitation game but a friend recommended it and let me use his steam family share to play it. It's actually a legitimate action game that's pretty damn fun with a good story too. I'm actually excited for the sequel.

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    [–] 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Tainted Grail: Fall of Avalon. It was on my wishlist for awhile, but some of the negative reviews had me thinking it wasn't something I would enjoy. Then I kept seeing comments that it was a good game to play if you like Skyrim. I disagree with that, it's not so much Skyrim vibes than as if Oblivion and Elden Ring had a baby that was into weird creepy shit and obsessed with the Knights of the Round table.

    It's cool AF and I was absolutely obsessed from the very beginning. I am glad I waited a bit to play it because there's 3rd person mode now and I don't think it initially shipped with 3rd person mode. I get insanely sick playing a lot of 1st person games. Some games I'm fine with and other games I'm puking my guts out and going to bed within 15 minutes of booting up the game, so having 3rd person mode (even if it's officially unsupported and a little glitchy) means I can play for hours and actually enjoy the game.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Just started playing this and blown away by it. Combat feels better than skyrim, and while it nerfs my "stealth Archer" approach it makes you actually utilize multiple mechanics while fighting.

    If you havent tried it, I would suggest "Dread Delusion". It's ps1 like graphics, and definitely has parred down mechanics, but the world building, exploration, missions, and story are really enjoyable.

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  • [–] 13 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Star Wars: Dark Forces (1995).

    I had it growing up as a kid, but could never beat the third level so I shelved it and forgot about it, until a few days ago when I decided to try it with The Force Engine which adds mouselook and some quality of life features.

    As an adult, I finally was able to figure out that 3rd level, and appreciate the cool setup for the missions (in a way, it's kinda like Andor).

    Was absolutely blown away by how much I enjoyed the combat and level design, had an absolute blast from start to finish, and now consider it one of my favorites.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Mass Effect Andromeda. It's fun as hell and I'm so glad I didn't listen to those who had nothing but bad things to say about it.

    its unpolished, sure. but unpolished diamonds are still diamonds. the characters are wonderful, the planets are amazing, the combattttt oh my goodness. and some of the choices are quite interesting.

    currently on my... 6th? 7th playthrough? and I love it so much I'm planning personal challenge runs for future plays. it's my favorite mass effect to reach for now when I have the mass effect itch.

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    [–] 9 points 2 months ago* (3 children)

    Breath of the wild actually.

    I had been massively burned by empty and dull mission based open world games. Also I'm not the biggest Zelda fan, it's very hit or miss for me.

    So I got in (very) late, at the switch release (owned wii-u too) and was massively enjoying the game. Everything there was something to see and to do.

    I also hesitated on tears of the kingdom and yeah... It's not for me.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    I had been massively burned by empty and dull mission based open world games.

    Some "open world" games merely tick the boxes of having a somewhat large area and the ability to traverse it. That alone turns out to be incredibly boring to many of us.

    Give me a game world that's interesting and rewarding to explore. Unique encounters. Unmapped discoveries. Surprising characters. Varied environments. This aspect of an open world is one of the things that Skyrim did fairly well. I wish more game designers would run with the idea.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Tears is tragic in that it perfectly addresses criticisms of weapon durability with fusion. It allows you to combine dropped monster horns with your weapon to increase your damage and since those horns scale with the enemies it means combat is never regression in your weapon damage. The horns you get back make up for the weapons you burn through. Only, fusion also brings in the construction mechanic which completely mucks up the game loop. Fuse goes far beyond gluing some logs together to form a bridge, it completely dominates all aspects of the game.

    There are other criticisms such as the underground area being way too big, being same size as the world map with only one biome instead of multiple sub-areas, but none of them are as cursed and double-edged as the fuse ability.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Kingdom come: Deliverance.

    I'm pretty far into my first playthrough. I had barely even heard of this game, but once I got past the initial frustration of realizing that I'm just a blacksmith's son, I'm having a blast!

    I wasn't sure how a lack of fantasy (monsters/magic) would turn out, but I don't miss it at all.

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    [–] 9 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    Several years ago now I played witcher 3. It was released in 2015. I enjoyed this game way more than I thought I would and couldn't believe I slept on it for 7 years or so before finally playing it

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    [–] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I only recently played Portal 2 & 1 (in that order lol). Really enjoyed them, I totally see why they're considered a classic!

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 child)

    I slept on Helldivers 2 for too long, now I don't think I'll ever play it. It's become obvious that Arrowhead is either unable or unwilling to maintain a game that focuses on the player experience, instead making it subservient to the vision of what they think the game should be. It's a costly lesson that Digital Extremes learned years ago. I also can't trust Sony not to steal access to the game from me.

    I guess I'm actively sleeping on Voices Of The Void. I've played a little of 0.9n and it's exactly the kind of horror I like, but I want to wait for at least the Steam early access release.

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    [–] 7 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    Doki Doki Literature Club
    I didn't know it was free to play, so I ended up spoiling myself on the plot before finally playing it.
    Still got caught off guard.

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    [–] 6 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    RPGs.

    I had my first encounters during the nineties (still the old 2D/2.5D ones), got confused and overwhelmed, so didn't consider them to be my thing.

    Briefly trying out Gothic during the mid 00s, and instantly getting killed by some big wolf or bird without having the slightest idea what was going on or what I was supposed to do didn't help.

    Fast forward 20 years to the early 2020s when I started gaming again after a 15 year pause, see everyone praising Elder Scrolls, grab Oblivion as it was on sale at GOG: Completely blown away and probably hooked for life.

    Currently playing Morrowind, which will last me a while still, but I am excited to revisit tons of old and newer RPG games that turned out to be exactly my thing after gaining some experience and finally understanding how to play them.

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    [–] 6 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Hollow knight.

    I had a bunch of soulslike phases but hollow knight I couldn't get into because "there is not even dodging mechanic"

    Then the mantis lords fight made the game kinda "click" and I did find "dash" ability too so it was fun.

    Then it kept becoming more fun through the story. Pretty much only soulslike I got into the lore of.

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    [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    GTA San Andreas. I still have a dent in my forehead from that case.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago* (3 children)

    Based on what you've described that you liked about Nine Sols, you should check out Sekiro.

    Best game I have ever played in my life. My only complaint is that it has made other games less enjoyable by comparison.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    Didn't play The Last of Us until a few months before Part 2 came out. I went into them pretty much blind, and I'm really glad I got to experience them like that. Real masterpieces these games.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago* (3 children)

    From Software Souls-like games.

    In fact, I’m still technically sleeping on them as I don’t know where to start. Assuming I can only play on a PS3 or Steam Deck - where would be the best jumping in point?

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I suggest starting with Dark Souls 1 and playing them in order. DS1 is slower and clunkier than the sequels, but will introduce you to the mechanics and playstyle of the series. That clunkiness is especially obvious after playing the sequels. DS2 is the one most people like the least, but it's still pretty decent, and plays somewhat faster than the first. DS3 is the smoothest experience, and probably hardest of the three.

    Bloodborne is a more action-oriented experience, definitely a faster pace than the Souls games, and arguably harder because of it.

    If you still want more, check out Demon's Souls. Some of the mechanics are tedious and can easily be ignored, others are main parts of the game and have been simplified somewhat in the later games. I haven't played the remake, but apparently it's as close as possible to the original experience, only with upgraded graphics and sound. I read that even the game's timings are exactly replicated.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Ori and the Blind Forest/Will of the Wisps: I picked up the first game in a Humble Bundle years ago and decided to play it randomly. Instantly became obsessed and then got the sequel when I beat it.

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    [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    Persona 5 Royal. And with it the entire Persona series. This shit is amazing.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    From a casual standpoint: Hidden Object games. There‘s not enough good ones (and lots of games tagged as them which really aren‘t) and I find them so immensly relaxing.

    Examples: Hidden Folks, Hidden through Time, varying sorts of 100 hidden Cats

    Basically „Where‘s Waldo“. Really just wish there were more of them.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    I have fell asleep playing Civilization a few times :) Just...one...more...turn.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    Outer Wilds. Took a lot of time to start and then a lot a time to actually click. Now it is one of my all time favorites.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    Persona 5.

    Wasn’t the biggest fan of RPGs but 5 is as easy as Chrono Trigger, with a cozy life sim and anime stapled ontop. A fun ride if you enjoy any of these. Though drop the difficulty to easy if you aren’t the biggest fan of RPGs

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    I don't really play a lot of new games anymore, so I guess the last time I slept on a game for too long was The Binding of Isaac: Rebirth. This was many years ago, I've got 1,200 hours in the game now and 100%'d it multiple times. Butt I can't stand potty humor, so seeing literal giant piles of crap all over the map and dozens of fart related items always immediately turned me away from the game any time I looked at it, despite knowing I'd love playing it. Eventually I gave in and bought it, and surprisingly, the poop didn't bother me much because they don't really make it look especially gross (except for tainted blue baby... fuck you, tainted blue baby). The farts were still bad, but most of those items suck so I can gladly ignore them.

    For a while I was desensitized to the potty humor, but then they released the Repentance DLC with the character tainted blue baby, and... ugh. If you don't know what he looks or plays like, feast your eyes on this wonderful wiki page and see how many results show up when you Ctrl+F "poop". He's a character based around the released bowels of a corpse who attacks by defecating. As much as I love the game, the potty humor remains my least favorite part of it by far, and I wish Edmund McMillen wasn't such a freak sometimes.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago*

    Hmm… probably Vanquish because I don't typically enjoy shooters and I typically play with controllers, not KB+M. I always assumed the shooting would ruin it for me.

    Turns out it's a shooter… but not really. It's more of an action game where resource management and positioning are more critical factors than aiming, which's mostly done in bullet time anyway.

    I know people who are used to/are good at aiming probably enjoy it more, but I thoroughly enjoyed it as an action game and plan to go back eventually to get the 100%.

    It also left me open to similar games like Evil West, if they exist.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I'm not gonna say I slept on it, but I've had Alan Wake in my library for over 5 years. Picked it up on sale around the time I got Control which I really wanted to play but never got around to. Decided since that whole universe seems more interconnected and with more games than it did when I bought them (Alan Wake 2, the upcoming sequel to Control, etc.), I should just do a playthrough of Alan Wake before I finally get around to getting Control off my backlog.

    Played through Alan Wake (the original, not the remake) this past weekend, and while it certainly shows its age in some areas, I had a lot more fun than I expected to. If you're into narrative third person "shooter" games like Uncharted, Tomb Raider, or similar, Alan Wake is worth checking out.

    I'm looking forward to finally getting to Control this weekend.

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