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I have the same request but for vlans in my house. I do have supported hardware. But I just still don't vlans working
Hey! I sent you a DM about it I was thinking we could have a call on MullvadVPNs jitsi aka https://meet.mulvad.net/ where others could join! If we can find a time that works for both of us we could send it here so others who are interested can join!
Hey. Thank you so much. I'll message you now
It's a huge problem that so many people act like it's super easy and simple. It's incredibly complicated to someone who is not a networking professional.
This has been my experience with self-hosting too. There are so many different areas of concepts that need to form a cohesive whole. Following a how-to and pasting some commands can lead to something running, but then there are worlds of knowledge to actually understand it. Especially when complexity seems to increase exponentially.
Funny thing is that for every low-level concept I actually learn, the more I appreciate my OpenBSD computer that I mostly play around with otherwise.
I'm in France timezone so hopefully we can find a time of the day that works for both of us, but feel free to DM me here or on Matrix (@pcouy:matrix.pierre-couy.fr)
What are you using as a router? How are you you trying to setup a reverse proxy?
I will be honest, I would do it for free. Money is nice but helping people is more important to me than that. However my understanding is with OpnSense and using Caddy for reverse proxy with the ACME client for Let's Encrypt certificates. Beyond that I am outside of my element.
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That's very kind of you but it'd be nice to give you something.
What I've got installed in NPM, cloudflared and authentik. Just trying to figure out how to use all three or at least 2 to get my apps on the domain. Ive been able to get things moving in the cloudflare dash but I'm aware I don't know alot about what on doing
If you are using Authentik, it will work good, but may be uneccessary if all you want is secure authentication, this is becuase Cloudflare does a "Zero Trust" model in which only approved email addresses, would be able to acess your site which you have to manually approve, otherwise, they get hit with the Cloudflare wall. This is completely free and voluntary!
In terms of Cloudflare, I assume that you have your domain all set up with the DNS servers pointed to Cloudflare from your domain registrar. This is probably the hardest part of it all. Then, it's just a matter of setting up your redirection to your server. I used to use them but haven't been in it for about a year now for my domains. They are a good company and will certainly help with your site's security.
Nginx Proxy Manager is like the reception desk for all traffic, when WWW comes in and asks for site.example.com NPM sees that and matches it up with the IP address/port of your server and sends it on it's merry way. If you are using Cloudflare Tunnels, and after you install their tunnel adaptor, you can skip NPM and just point to the IP and internal port on your server. Pretty straight forward in that area. They have great documentation on how to do this to get you started.
Basically, if you use Cloudflare tunnels, you can skip NPM and free up some resources if you want as it will be redundant. So, then Authentik comes in and can act as a traffic cop and protect all types of pages, ones with log in and those without.
Oof, I feel you OP. I started down this road back in February, and I thought I'd be set up by now, but I'm still learning some of the pieces for a project that's almost exactly the same as yours. If it's any consolation, I have made a ton of progress. The hardest part can often be when you've chosen the pieces you want to use for your project, and then a kind stranger who means well adds extra complexity above and beyond what you want or need on top of their suggestion.
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