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[-] cRazi_man@europe.pub 174 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Literally what everyone should be doing now for the environment. Clothes waste is a huge problem. The fact that people throw away stuff that can still be sold at thrift stores is appalling. Understandable if your body shape has changed or something, but "getting bored" of clothes is indefensible. This extends to people "getting bored" of phones and cars too, which is terrible.

Also: I'm in this picture and my wife hates me for it. I have something from 25 years ago thats still wearable.

OP's post has also missed the category of "sleep clothes".

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 35 points 1 week ago

If your body shape has changed, donate your old clothes! My wife lost a bunch of weight because medical reasons, and she recently went through her entire wardrobe; I dropped five 30-gallon bags of perfectly serviceable clothes off at a nonprofit thrift shop.

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[-] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 week ago

30y/o.

I have bought a grand total of 3 brand new pieces of clothing in my whole life(not including underwear/socks). Every single other piece was either given to me for xmas/birthday/random gifts or bought from thrift stores. Anything I can't wear anymore has either been donated back to thrift or cut into rags myself.

I've also directly worked in a thirft store, where anything unsellable get tossed into 'rag out' where it's donated to a company that turns it into cheap bags of shop rags: so even stuff that's falling apart is still worth donating.

[-] cRazi_man@europe.pub 15 points 1 week ago

In England they tell us not to donate anything that we wouldn't consider worthy of gifting to someone. They have to use volunteer time to soft/sort (and I guess clean) all items. If it's not something anyone will buy then best to take it directly to clothes recycling drop offs rather than charity shops.

[-] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

(and I guess clean)

May be a difference between regions, but thrift doesn't clean clothes around me. You're expected to donate clean clothes; But if it's visually in such rough shape that it needs to be washed first, it's 'rag out', otherwise it goes on the sales floor. Laundry is a huge expense for a nonprofit; instead, they expect you to wash it yourself before wearing it.

I'm not aware of any seprate clothes recycling facilities around me, and can't find one with a quick search. Just the typical thrifts.

[-] Banana@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 week ago

My friends and I have been doing clothing swaps with the local femme community and honestly its been a huge game changer for closet refreshing! We had like 260 people come through last time and anything left after the swap is done is donated to local youth/addiction/women's centres :)

I've gotten some of my favourite outfits from the swap!! And it's completely free!

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[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I have a sweater that my grandma got me when I was 7. It's purple with a handful of printed comic panels featuring Harry, a snow dog. It goes "Harry is a snow dog. Harry is a good dog." and you can see Harry doing snowboard and stuff.

I am 35 today. It's worn out a bit but still my dearest, most beloved pajama. It still fits, somehow

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[-] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 68 points 1 week ago

There's no point to discard something that is still useful.

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[-] blazeknave@lemmy.world 28 points 1 week ago

I really don't know the last time I got rid of an article of clothing besides shredded socks. I like this post.

[-] kalpol@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 week ago

Socks make excellent dipstick wipers, then once well impregnated with oil, they're good for lubing bike chains

[-] humorlessrepost@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

And once they’re 51% oil, they’re self-lubricating cum socks.

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

And when they are so full of dried cum that you can't bend them any more, they make excellent roof shingles

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[-] TachyonTele_Esq@piefed.social 27 points 1 week ago

I just went to the thrift store last month for clothes. And this is absolutely correct. The entire store was huge, and then there's two racks for men lol.

Something interesting I noticed is most of the men's clothes are nice shirts. Button downs, dress shirts, polos, all sorts of different fabrics, there was even a wedding shirt in there. Not a lot of tshirts, unless they're made of something different.

My theory is the men's clothes that ends up in thrift stores are the nice clothes given to them as gifts, or the wife found it and added it to her bag of clothes to donate.

[-] Saapas@piefed.zip 20 points 1 week ago

Or stuff someone had to buy for some occasion

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[-] Zacryon@feddit.org 22 points 1 week ago

This is true. I wear my socks until they are more hole than sock and I currently have a couple of shirts in the "home clothes" level that I got about 15-18 years ago.

Fuck fast fashion. Be a man. Save the planet.

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[-] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 week ago

There's another aspect of this. Y'all are assuming cycling out your wardrobe regularly is "normal" and men are "abnormal" because they don't. But the reason women cycle out their wardrobe regularly is not because of some universal law that men ignore, it's because women go through weight fluctuations that render their old clothes unwearable. You'll hear a woman talk about losing 30 pounds and having to buy new clothes because of that... the fact that women's fashion includes a lot of form-fitting items (whereas men's fashion is often looser or more forgiving) certainly contributes to this as well.

I have some items I've had for over 20 years I could still wear, because I haven't had any significant changes in figure in that time... because I'm a guy.

[-] Squirrelsdrivemenuts@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

Yes, as a woman that does not like shopping, I still have to buy clothes more often than my boyfriend. Even with a relatively stable weight (+/- 3 kilos over the years) clothes stretch out and loose form, which makes the fit bad. The shirts that survive are the shirts with a more boyish loose cut, the form-fitting stuff looks bad after a while.

That said, I do put them in the home/nightwear category until significant holes appear or they don't feel comfy anymore.

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm a man. I went from 220 pounds on the vodka diet to quitting booze for a while. I lost 50 pounds.

The dope Japanese jeans I bought forever ago fit!

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[-] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago

Shit, TIL I'm a man.

Ah well, now to pick which hole-ridden shirt will be my pajamas tonight.

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[-] lemmyng@piefed.ca 15 points 1 week ago

The good men's clothes you find at thrift stores are there because the owner passed away and their next of kin donated them.

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[-] sudoMakeUser@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 week ago

Yeah I do this. I never buy clothes myself. Usually kinda just acquire stuff over time. It goes good -> everyday -> work -> rags

[-] minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago

So men are better for the environment?

[-] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 week ago

On that front, yes. But then there's our usual fascination with engines/computers/power tools (you have to pick at least one) so it probably evens out

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[-] DickFiasco@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago

The final use of a piece of clothing is as a wick for a Molotov cocktail.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 14 points 1 week ago

I swear some of my underwear is 50:50 underwear to holes ratio.

[-] Saapas@piefed.zip 9 points 1 week ago

Well there's the leg holes, hole I use to put it on and ofc the peepe hole and poopoo hole.

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[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago
[-] zod000@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 week ago

This is so spot on I feel like the person that made this meme has been sneaking around my house to spy on me.

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[-] cannedtuna@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Well, I usually, not intentionally, have a pile of rags by my garage door that kinda sit there for grease, oil, etc. till they get washed separately, so I’d assume probably something along those lines for the guy who made this.

[-] darthelmet@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

I’m still wearing clothes with holes in them. It’s not fair, if someone buys brand new ripped jeans that’s “fashion,” but if I do it I’m a “slob.”

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[-] Beth@piefed.social 11 points 1 week ago

I use my scrubs this way. And my jeans. Nothing else really lasts that long and I kinda blame the additional wear and tear from my boobs. I buy thick socks and mend them when they get a hole I guess.

[-] MrShankles@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

I've just accepted wearing my (thick) socks with a hole on the heel... why tf have I never considered mending them‽ I feel a bit (very much) embarrassed about that, and I appreciate the thought. Also excited to realize I can reclaim like 4 pairs of my socks. So thanks for making me feel a little dumb, friend!

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[-] snooggums@piefed.world 10 points 1 week ago

The best part of this approach is that I don't buy clothes very often, saving money!

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[-] justastranger@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago

Donated men's clothing tends to be dead man's clothes

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If good mens clothing was that hard to find in thrift stores, we would never have gotten the lyrics:

I wear your grandad's clothes,

I look incredible.

From what I've been seeing in memes recently, I wonder if this is just another shitty thing only seen at Goodwill, the worst thrift store chain ever.

[-] arrow74@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 week ago

See those lyrics are proof of the lack of selection in men's clothes.

90% of the donated clothes are something you'd see old people wear. My theory is that this is from families clearing out closets after someone dies

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[-] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 9 points 1 week ago

And the problem with this is?

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[-] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm currently wearing my painting clothes, working on painting the front hallway. The shorts are around 25 years old, and the shirt is about ten years old. The shorts only have a couple of small paint spots on them, and I admit that I wear them for everyday too. In preparation for painting, I used an old t-shirt as a rag.

Apart from underwear and socks, nearly all of my clothes are at least ten years old. My winter parka is about 35 years old and still looks fine, the color is just a bit faded. I have a belt that's over 40 years old, I got it in high school. It's my favorite belt.

I'm old, no one really cares what I wear as long as I'm decent.

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