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[-] lyralycan@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 weeks ago

My partner/bff is a femme them aha

[-] kittenz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 weeks ago

I love the term femme them

[-] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 weeks ago
[-] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 weeks ago

Holy shit on a shovel, this is something I needed to see ... very validating of how I am :-)

[-] AiricaFyresong@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 weeks ago

I love femme thems, so exotic, so hot! I float between femme and enby myself but also have an affinity for all things fae/fairy, so I am genderfae! 🧚‍♀️

[-] I_am_10_squirrels@beehaw.org 4 points 2 weeks ago

No, you can't have my name

[-] AiricaFyresong@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

Silly little squirrels! Names are for humans! 🤭

[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 11 points 2 weeks ago

Some of my favourite thems are femmes! Nonbinary femmes are hawwtt

[-] strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I love the saturation of the look of the colour palette. It seems like the saturation has been lowered, and the hues shifted to be warmer.

[-] Schmuppes@lemmy.today 6 points 2 weeks ago
[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 7 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Hexarei@beehaw.org 11 points 2 weeks ago

If I'm not mistaken, they're probably referring to the fact that in French, "femme" is pronounced like "fum", not "fem"

[-] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

fums can be thums

[-] craftrabbit@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago

For once, the English way of pronouncing it makes more sense

[-] Rei@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

As a French woman, femme in French, maybe femme in the sense of femme, definitely fem though, it makes conversations akward 😄

I do prononce it the accepted way in English, don't worry.

[-] Hexarei@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago

I don't speak French at all but "en fem" feels weird to say so I use a shitty attempt at the French pronunciation of "en femme" lol

[-] Rei@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

If you're curious femme in French is kinda pronounced like fam from family. Maybe a slightly longer a but long and short vowels in French are kinda volatile and heavily subject to local accents so meh

this post was submitted on 07 Jul 2026
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